How to make your child grow in a good way. And we parents too.There is only one track, called "Jesus Christ".Noble readers (as) this will be one of those topics blessed by the Lord "God, through the Son Jesus Christ." For thus saith the word of the Lord: When King David prayed to "God" in favor of his son "Solomon.". See 1 Chronicles 29.19 that day, "Lord, Thou good and right, give to my son" ... a perfect heart to keep Thy commandments, Thy testimonies, and thy statutesand to do everything, and to build the palace which I have prepared.Noble reader (a) I intend to show here in this topic as raise our children in a good way, the path of truth, love and justice. This path is called "Jesus Christ" and "God", we parents, their children are also considered, for love of the Son "Jesus" were adopted by "God."Notice that in this issue, we adults also may be cited, mentioned "God" wants us to be like children too, as their little ones, Pure, clean, free from sins. "God" is the best for all his children: He did not want and do not want any of us miss. Children are pure, and if we go and show them the best and only way from small, when they grow up, it is difficult to deviate from this path.
We will learn the four steps of prayer, and so we pray for our children.1 - Let's start praising God as Jesus taught us the Our Father ... "Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name. 10 Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as in heaven; 11 our daily bread Give us this day, 12 And forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors; 13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever, amen.
- We confess our sins so that we can reach the throne of God with a pure heart and clean. "According to Scripture, there is no effective prayer life when sin retains its hold on the believer's life. This is why confession is so important to our life of communion with the Lord and should be introduced immediately in beginning of prayer. "3 - come to God with thankful hearts, it is the very Word of God tells us ... "In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you" (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Very interesting what tells us the theologian O. Hallesby ... "When we thank God, we are praising God for all He has done for us, and when we worship and praise, are praising God for all He is."4 - come to the throne of God as intercessors praying for someone. Abraham interceded on behalf of his nephew Lot when the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah would be destroyed because there is there even ten righteous people. As intercessors to pray trusting that everything we're asking is in the hands of God who is faithful, kind and has the perfect plan for the life of each person for whom we intercede.1 - praising God: To know that a mother praying for her children is necessary that before, she knows the One who created them so that he could begin his prayer praising Him. Throughout the Bible we can know God and His attributes. We learn that God is ... 1) One Supreme God. We see this attribute of God in Genesis when Melchizedek blesses Abraham and says ... "Blessed be Abram by God Most High, possessor of heaven and earth" (Genesis 14:19). Yes, our God is one Supreme God, the Almighty who is above all. "Lord God, You who are one Supreme God and that you are above everything and everyone takes care of my son, take him in your hands ..." 2) A Sovereign God: Our God is the One who holds supreme power and authority. He is sovereign over the earth and the sky. He is the Lord and all. We learn of God's sovereignty when we read Psalm 135, that tells us ... "Praise the Lord 1. Praise the name of the Lord: praise him, the Lord's servants. 2 Ye that stand in the house of the Lord, in the courts of the house of our God. 3 Praise the Lord because the Lord is good: sing praises unto his name, it is pleasant. 4 For the Lord hath chosen Jacob unto himself, and Israel for his peculiar treasure. 5 For I know that the Lord is great and that our Lord is above all gods. 6 All that the Lord has made, in heaven and on earth, the seas and all deeps. "" My God, my Father, I praise you because you are a Sovereign God, a God of love who looks for every child My individual ... "3) One Almighty God: Our God is a God of wood, nor stone, nor dumb. He is a real God, the Almighty. He has the power to raise the dead, healing lepers, the lame to walk, cast out demons, change a situation ... give us eternal life ... "Great is our Lord and of great power: His understanding is infinite" (Psalm 147:15)."God has spoken once, twice have I heard this: that power belongs to God, 12 Also unto thee, O Lord, belongeth mercy: for retribuirás to each according to his work." (Psalm 62:11,12: You son, see that "God" this is what he says in these verses. "Father, accept my praise, I praise you because you are an Almighty God, all things can. Can bring my son from the darkness to light ... "See what it says in Psalm 68. "19 Blessed be the Lord, who daily bears us up to date of benefits: the God who is our salvation. (Selah) 20 Our God is the God of salvation, and unto GOD the Lord belong the issues from death.4) An Omniscient God. Our God is a God who knows all things. He knows us, knows our thoughts, our walk, the desires of our hearts, our lives ... our children."Shall not God search this out? For He knows the secrets of the heart" (Psalm 44:21).
"Lord God, my Father, You alone know all things, only Thou art an omniscient God, a God who knows the heart of each of your children ...See what it says in John 3. "35 The Father loves the Son, and hath given all things into their mãos.36 He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: but he that believeth not the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God abideth on him. Note here the Father is "God" and He through the Son Jesus, leads us to receive the love of the "Father God" See also ch. 5 John ... {19} But Jesus answered and said unto them, In fact, you actually say that the Son by himself can not do anything if you do not see the Father doing, because whatever he does the Son also does. 20 For the Father loves the Son and shows him everything he does, and he will show him greater works than these, that you maravilheis.21 For as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, so the Son quickeneth whom he will. 23 That all may honor the Son as they honor the Father who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent him. 24 In fact, I tell you the truth heareth my word and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and not come into condemnation but is passed from death to life. 25 Verily, verily I say, the hour cometh, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God, and those who hear will live. 26 For as the Father hath life in himself, so hath he given the Son to have life in himself; 27 And he gave him authority to execute judgment, because he is the Son of man. 28 Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming when all who are in the graves shall hear his voice. 29 And they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life, and those who have done evil unto the resurrection of damnation.}Do not allow your children or do you also see death as through the Son "Jesus" have eternal life, and that is next to the "Father God". And how to do this! Teaching your child the proper way, and that is this track. Through the Son of "God." "He" gave his physical life, to save us and free us from sin and eternal death. Yes: physical death, all we have to spend a day, but eternal life is to just, you know why? Unfortunately humans mostly prefer to live in sin, and thus loses the right to inherit eternal life next to the "Father and the Son, God and Jesus"5) An omnipresent God: Our God is a God who is always present in good times and bad times of our lives. "Let your without covetousness, contented with yourselves that ye have: for He said: I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5). "Father, I thank you because I know that you are an omnipresent God, and therefore, you have had with my children, caring for each one. Thank you for your love and mercy ..."See what the Psalm 91. "1 He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High, in the shadow of the Almighty. "See kids what" God "has for you yet in Psalm 91 .... 2 I will say of the Lord: He is my God, my refuge and my fortress, and trust in Him. 9 For thou, O Lord, are my refuge. Have made the Most High your dwelling. 10 There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy tenda.11 Why shall give his angels charge concerning thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.12 They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone. "6) One True God. It is because of the faithfulness of God we have peace and confidence that one day we will meet him in glory. Psalm 121. "5 The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand." The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in, now and forever " (Psalm 121:5-8). "O Lord, I praise you because you are a faithful God! And it is because of your faithfulness to put into your hands the life of each of my children, knowing that everything you do is to their material and spiritual or "God Benigno A: It is impossible for anyone to measure the goodness of our God. We can, however, imagine it when you stop to think about what we were before and we are now. All this because of His goodness. Consider the words of Spurgeon speaking of the goodness of our God ... "It is during the storm that we learn to give thanks to God for His goodness, And for His wonderful works to the children of men" (Psalm 107:8). "Read Psalm 118, and see how the mercies of the Lord endure forever. "Observing these words we find that, often, believe in the goodness of the Lord by faith because ... How can we believe that He is good when, for example, we see five people getting involved in an automobile accident, and only one, the only believer, died aged 15? Yeah, exactly, because we know that God is good and merciful than we can say that ...a-We believe that God is good, because he saved the young man's father and brother, the day he was to the glory ... "How precious it is, O God, Thy mercy, so that the children of men under the shadow of Your wings" (Psalms 36:7).b-We believe that God is good because, despite the pain, it is he who has the perfect plan for the life of each of His children ... Salmo63. "Because Thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise thee. 4 Thus will I bless thee while I live in thy name I will lift up my hands." C-We believe that God is good because He sent His only begotten Son die by the young and all of us to take us to heaven with Him ... See Psalm 117 and Psalm 118 117.1 Praise the Lord all nations, praise Him all peoples. 2 For his merciful kindness is great for us, the truth of the Lord endures forever. Praise the Lord "It says in Psalm. 118." 1 Praise the Lord, for he is good, because his mercy endureth for sempre.2 Tell Israel now that his mercy endureth sempre.3 Speak now to the house of Aaron, that his mercy endureth forever.4 Say now that fear the Lord that his mercy endureth for sempre.8 is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man. "
"O God, only because of Your mercy is that we stand! Just because you are a gracious God is that I ask for cuidares the lives of our children ..."These and many other attributes of God are what make us love Him, worship Him and honor Him more.The word mercy, you will find muitsa times here in the Bible.2 - confessing their sins, God is a Holy God and therefore can not get full of sins before Him. I have to give him the best of me, to confess my iniquities and thus restore my communion with Him "(1 John 1:9)." 9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. "Not separate from "God because of their iniquities, sins: for this is that we must show the right path from childhood to our children, and that way is Jesus Christ." But if I decide to remain in sin, the Bible tells me ... "But your iniquities have separated you from your God" (Isaiah 59:2). He loves us but hates sin, and if we love Him we must seek to be pure and straight.
My daily prayer should be ... 10 "Create in me, O God, a pure heart and renew a right spirit within me. 13 Then will I teach transgressors thy ways, and sinners shall be converted unto thee. (Psalm 51:10,13).3 - GRATEFUL HEARTS: Daniel was an example of a man grateful to God. The Bible tells us ... "Daniel ... went into his house (now in his room had windows open side of Jerusalem), and three times a day sank to his knees and prayed and gave thanks before his God ... (Daniel 6: 10).See what the Bible tells us that Daniel prayed on his knees three times a day and ... gave thanks. How often do you pray a day? How often do you kneels to pray? How often do you give thanks for so many things that the Lord does for you?
We often ask, ask and ask that, even not notice that the Lord has answered and then ... realize that in fact we do not have a thankful heart. You have thanked God for her husband, for each of your children and especially for the salvation He has given you? "One who offers a sacrifice of praise shall glorify me: and to him that orders your way I show the salvation of God" (Psalms 50:23). This is what the Lord thinks.
4 - Intercession: Our prayer to God is that He help us to be faithful intercessors of our children. "Lord, I praise You for Your faithfulness and goodness! Teach me, Father, to pray for my children and I always pray and never faint!" May Your Spirit, Lord, can you show me each need them. I trust Thee, Father, and I know that You will supply all my needs and fulfill your promises in the day, time and so that thou wilt, Amen. "" My God, according to His riches, will meet all your needs in glory through Jesus Christ. 20 Now to our God and Father be glory for ever and ever. Amen (Philippians 4:19,20).Jeremiah 29. "11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace and not for calamity to give you an expected end. 12 And call upon me, and you will, and pray to Me, and I will ouvirei.13 And ye shall seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. "With all this goodness of the Lord our God we only have they always say ... THANK YOU (A) LORD AND AMEN!(PART TWO) Interceding For My Children "I have no greater joy than this, to hear that my children walk in truth" (3 John 1:4). Listen to who wrote this passage. When I read Isaiah 44:3, remember the faithfulness of God that is poured constantly in our lives. He says in His Word: "I will pour water on the thirsty and floods upon the dry ground: I will pour out My Spirit upon thy seed, and my blessing upon thine offspring." Lord AMEN! Listen to vers.4 also in the 6 '4 And they shall spring up like grass, as willows by the water. 5 One shall say, I am the Lord: and he shall be called the name of Jacob, and another shall subscribe with his hand to the Lord, and surname himself by the name Israel.6 Thus saith the LORD the King of Israel, and its Redeemer, the Lord of hosts: I am the first, and I am the last, and beside me there is no God. "
"Oh Lord, what a wonderful promise! You What security you place in my heart, what joy to know that pour Your Spirit on my children, grandchildren and great grandchildren (or even where my eyes reach) and also to bless! Obrigad (a) Father, for bringing refreshment to my soul!Amen! "Another promise of the Lord that gladdens my heart and renews my strength is in28 hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth or get tired or weary? His understanding is inscrutable. 29 It gives strength to the weary, and multiplies the forces that have no effect. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men shall utterly fall: But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength they shall mount up with wings as eagles, run and not grow weary, walk and not faint. "Isaiah 40.28,31I love you both my children to pray every day for each one individually. In addition, every child knows, every need, every desire ... and believe in the promise of the Lord says to me ... "Call unto Me, and answer thee, shew thee great and mighty things which thou knowest not" (Jeremiah 33:3).As a mother to rest in the Lord and delivered into his hands but not ceasing to pray for them. Despite the problems that have as a parent, you have to face, and he wisely resolved, I know the Lord is always with you. And in this confidence, I know that neither me or tire me fatigarei, for He is always my "... refuge and strength ..." (Psalms 46:1) and He will intercede for my children.
Salvation, spiritual life, involvement in church, purity, work, studies, friends, future spouses ... are areas of the lives of my children why I put on my knees and pray to the Father, pleading for each. As always, the Word of God strengthens my spirit ... "The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective" (James 5:16). Good to know it!Note that, in the lives of their children, they each have different needs and realize that we must pray for each and every need. Among many needs we observe only a few that I really thought the most important ...1 - The salvation of my son; 2 - The spiritual life of my son; 3 - Sanctification in the life of my son;4 - my son's involvement in the church; 5 - The friends of my son.1 - The Sons Of Salvation. Ask God for the salvation of his son, the request is more important and urgent that a mother should do. There is in this life is nothing more important or more urgent than the eternal salvation of our children. They need to know the plan of salvation and accept Jesus in their lives. And it's up to us, we speak of this so great love of God as soon as they do not know if our son will be alive in five minutes. So I pray and ask the Father that He send His Holy Spirit to convince my son of sin and the need to accept Jesus as their Savior. Mother, pray for the salvation of your child is an "eternal investment." When we see our children, one by one, accepting Jesus into their lives, we see how our Heavenly Father is faithful and is always listening to our prayers. It is he who tells me ... (Ezekiel 11:19). "19 I will give them one heart, and a new spirit will I put within them, and take away your flesh the heart of stone and give them an heart of flesh: 20 That they may walk in my statutes, and keep mine ordinances, and do them: and they shall be my people, and I will be their God. 21 But as for them whose heart walketh after the heart of their detestable things and their abominations, I will fall on their heads their way, says the Lord God. "
Pray for your son, for the salvation of his soul may depend on your prayer and supplication.2 - The Spiritual Life Of My Child. The mother who really loves his son wants him to grow spiritually in God's ways. Our son can not be a babe in Christ forever. He has to mature and know the God who saved him by His commandments, His Word. In his moments of prayer, ask the Lord for the spiritual life of his son, his dedication to Bible reading, prayer, praise and gone to church services. Romans 1:28 warns us of the need to know the Almighty God ... "And as they did not care to have knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient." You do not want this for your son, is not it? So get on my knees and pray ... pray ... and pray!3 - The Sanctification Of Life My Son: The Bible tells me ... "He who loves purity of heart, and is kind of lips, is the king's friend" (Prov. 22:11).Yet learned the Word of God ... "Are an abomination to the Lord thoughts of the wicked, but the words of the pure are pleasant" (Proverbs 15:26). Purity and holiness in the heart of a child is something that every mother wants to see. Having a child whose words are pleasing to God is the result of hours of prayer of a mother who loves and cares for him. How long you and I we pray for our children, every day? You and I have prayed for their salvation? And the spiritual life? You and I have bent our knees and put this area of their lives on the altar of the Lord? We mothers as parents, we thought it important to pray and implore the Lord for Him to change the hearts of our children and turn them into young pure and holy?Let our children know God's will in their lives watching 1 Thessalonians 4:1,3 says: "Finally, brethren, pray and exhort in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us, how ought to walk and to please God, so walk, that you may progress more ... Because this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from fornication: 4 That every one of you know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor; 5 Not in passion of lust like the Gentiles who know not God.4 - Involvement Of My Son in the Church. For my son likes to go to church, he must have the Holy Spirit dwelling in him. He must have accepted Jesus as your one and only Savior. So ... what I have to do to see my son involved with the things of God? First, I have to tell you the love of God who sent His only begotten Son to die for us and give us eternal life. Then I have to pray and ask God that His Spirit to make him understand His perfect plan of salvation and he decides to accept Him into your life. Finally, I pray to God to put my son in the heart of love for His work. For my son's interest in things of the Lord that I also encourage you to go to youth camps, Bible clubs, church activities, youth group ... and then ... pray that His Spirit operate in his life. Nor should I forget to show you what the Word of God says ... "Colossians 3:23 And whatsoever ye do, do it with all my heart, as unto the Lord, not men 24 Knowing that the Lord will receive the reward of the inheritance, because Christ the Lord, serve. 25 But who has insulted you do receive the wrong, because there is no respecter of persons. "Notice that "God through his son Jesus, will never make sense of people5 - The Friends Of My Son: Listen to this sister unknown to me, but super known for "God" Oh, how I would have prayed for each of my children, well before they were born! How I would have prayed when they were still little babies ... for their salvation, the spiritual growth of each, for the sanctification and their love for the Lord's work! But ... I still was not a child of God. Today, having accepted Jesus into my life and my children grown, I see a great need to pray for my grandchildren (loves of my life) and by their friends who may be a blessing or curse in their lives. PS I am sending you this message, I have three daughters, one foster, and I was not born in a cradle Gospel: I am come to seek "God" after 40 years, and how I regret not having done this before. I still have no grandchildren, but now my wife goes with me to church with my youngest adoptive.The first book of Corinthians 15:33 warns us saying ... "Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners. 34 Awake to righteousness and sin not because some have no knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame." Proverbs 22:24-25 shows us how we should pray the Lord our children away from bad influences so that they do not follow crooked paths by which enlaçarão their souls ... "Do not be quarrelsome fellow man or walk with the choleric. To not learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul. "Dear, reader (s) know that every child has different needs. It is important that we have with each one individually, times of fellowship, a friendly conversation, companionship, respect. With wisdom, we can penetrate their hearts and know them more deeply so that we can pray for them based on what they need. As parents, we are concerned with various areas of life of our children, so we organize our requests according to the needs of each one. As they grow, the needs are changing and we kept praying and praying and praying without ceasing. This is our role with our children ... pray tirelessly and relentlessly and see, little by little, God answered our prayers ... our children walking in His ways with pure souls and giving example of true Christians who love the Lord. "O God, Thou who art a merciful God Almighty and the Almighty, have mercy on my son's life! You know, and I know that he is not walking in Thy ways. Long ago, he abandoned you and has no heard your voice. You know how my heart is crying for that prodigal son and I know that in these moments, Thou art with me, consoling me. Father, it removes the bad influence of friends! What he can not sleep, thinking how much is wrong to walk "the way of sinners." Let him go back to that first love that he had before all this I see now. what he feels homesick for Your love, Your care, Your Word. Pour, Father , blessings in your life! That as the prodigal son, he ran back to your arms, and all together one day in eternity, we may praise Thee and adore Thee. In Jesus' name ... Amen! " Take for example this beautiful prayer of this mother.
Susanna Wesley is my favorite and we can learn a lot from her. In his nineteen children, born between 1690 and 1709, only nine reached adulthood. After she had her ninth child, Susanna decided to increase their time of devotion and prayer for one hour to two. Those who knew him knew his courage and peace were the moments she spent with God every day. Susanna's life was not easy. His house was a mud hut, her husband was a very difficult man, his house caught fire twice, and almost everything was destroyed, she had major financial problems because of the debts of her husband. But his strength was in the Lord, and her purpose was clear: to raise their children to the glory of God. Susanna rigorously educated their children, teaching them six hours a day at home but she knew their spiritual maturity depended on divine help. His biography describes how she put each child to sleep and watched every face in the candlelight, while praying that God will inspire each of them in such a way that could be used to change the world ... "(Cheri Fuller). We know that one of his sons (John Wesley) became a great preacher of the gospel and another (Charles Wesley) was known composer of several hymns in church. That just like Susanna Wesley, we can transform us fathers and mothers of prayer. That our God transform us into real speakers, who trust in His blessings even though often not the way we think, but trusting that His decision is wiser than ours.All Scripture quotations are from ACF (Fixed True Adams, the SBTB). The ACF and ARC (ARC ideally by 1894, no later than the IBB-1948 edition, not the SBB-1995) are the only printed Bibles that the believer should use, because they are good heirs of the Reformation of the Bible (Almeida 1681/1753) faithfully translated only the Word of God infallibly preserved (and finally printed in the Reformation, as the Textus Receptus). http://solascriptura-tt.org/)The Importance of Education: Both the Old and New Testament, God emphasized the importance of education from parents to children. At the time of the Patriarchs, God entrusted the determination of faithful men to pass on his instructions to subsequent generations. He said about Abraham: "Because I chose to command his children and his household after him, in order to keep the way of the Lord and to do justice and judgment" (Genesis 18:19). Trust God to Abraham was not based on the experience of this man as a father. God knew that Abraham was faithful to the Lord, and do your best as a father. When Moses summed up the will of God to the Israelites in the last weeks of his life, he said: "These words which I command you today shall be in thine heart: thou shall teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt speak of them sit in your house, walk by the way, and when you lie down and when you rise up "(Deut. 6:6-7). Asaph, a psalmist of Israel, wrote: "What we hear and learn what our parents told us not to hide them to their children, will tell the coming generation the praises of the Lord, and his power, and the wonders he has done" (Psalm 78:3-4).The book of Proverbs contains much practical teaching from parents to children. Consider some verses that stress the importance of giving and receiving this advice: "Listen, children, father's instruction and attend to know understanding" (4:1), "My son, attend to my words, my teaching give ear "(4:20)" My son, keep thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother "(6:20)," A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother "(10:1)," A wise son heareth his father's instruction, but a scoffer does not meet the rebuke "(13:1)," Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old he will not depart from it "(22:6).The New Testament also speaks of the importance of education by parents. Paul commented on faith that Timothy learned from her mother and grandmother (2 Timothy 1:5). The same apostle wrote: "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). Theauthor of Hebrews commented on the importance of discipline in the education of children (Hebrews 12:4-11).The whole Bible emphasizes the importance of parenting their children.Some Things Parents Should Teach Your Children: A small study like this is not enough to talk about everything that parents need to communicate to their children. Any parent could stop here and devote himself to the study of the Bible itself to find a much broader orientation. Learn how to be faithful to God and seek to teach the same principles to their children. The suggestions that follow serve to initiate or guide your study, but are not a complete list of instructions that the children need. Let's consider some things that children should learn from their parents.● Respect authority. Learning to respect the absolute authority of the Lord is of paramount importance for the eternal salvation of the children (Matthew 28:18-20, "18 And he came to Jesus spake unto them, saying to me is given all power in heaven and earth.19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son, and Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the ages, amen. "2 Thessalonians 1. "7 And to you who are troubled rest with us when revelation of the Lord Jesus from heaven with the angels of his power, 8 In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: 9 Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the face of the Lord and the glory of his power, 10 When it comes to be glorified in his saints, and to be marveled at that day all who believe (becauseour testimony among you was believed) .11 Therefore we also pray always for you, so that ourGod may count you worthy of this calling, and fulfill every desire of goodness and the work of faith with power;12 That the name of our Lord Jesus Christ be glorified in you, and ye in him, according to the grace of our God and Lord Jesus Christ. "
But this lesson begins before children develop the ability to understand the idea of a Being spiritual and invisible. When the child learns to respect the authority of the mother and earthly father, takes an important step in the direction of submission to God. If you do not respect the parent visible, as will obey the Heavenly Father? The principle of respect should cover other authority figures - school teachers, supervisors, service, government officials and spiritual leaders (read Romans 13:1 to 141 Peter 2:13,19, 3:1, 1 Peter. 2. "13 Submit yourselves therefore to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake, whether to the king, as supreme; 14 Want to governors as sent by him for the punishment of evildoers and for praise to them that do well. 15 For so is the will of God, that with well doing, tapeis the mouth to the ignorance of foolish men: 16 As free, and not using your liberty for a cloke of maliciousness, but as servants of God.17 Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king. 18 Slaves, submit yourselves with all fear to you, not only to the good and human, but also to maus.19 Why nice thing, that someone, because of conscience toward God, suffer injuries, suffering wrongfully. "Regarding women, in the words of Paul. In the 22 2Ped.3.1
The duties of wives and husbands ... Christian {1} Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that, even if any obey not the word, the conversation of the wives be won without a word, whereas the second behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, the use of gold jewelry, on of apparel; 4 But the hidden man of the heart, in imperishable garb of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious to God ..... 6 As Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are doing good, and not afraid with any amazement. 7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel; you as his co-heirs of the grace of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers ...
Brotherly Love - The patient in tribulation, after the example of Christ8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, sympathetic, love as brethren, entranhavelmente merciful and gracious. 9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing, knowing that for this you were called, that ye may obtain an inheritance to bênção.10 Because who would love life And see good days, the Refrain his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit .... Read to the version. 22, AmenSee what it says in Hebrews 13:17). 17 Obey your leaders and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls as they that must give account, to do so with joy and not with grief, not because it would be useful to you.● Recognize limits and consequences. Parents need to teach the principle of collection: "What a man soweth, that shall he also reap" (Galatians 6:7); "7 Be not deceived: God is not mockedbecause whatever a man soweth, that also ceifará.8 he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption: but he that soweth to the Spirit, the Spirit will reap eternal life. 9 And let us not become weary in doing good, for in due time we shall reap if we do not desfalecido.10 So, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, but especially to the household of faith. "See what it says in (Proverbs 22:8 -9). "The eight who sows iniquity will reap evils, and with the rod of his own indignation will become extinct. 9 What welcomes is blessed, for he giveth of his bread to the poor. "
Disobedience must be punished: {...} 18 Discipline your son while there is hope, but do not let your mind get excited until the kill. ... 23 The fear of the LORD leads to life: he that hath shall be satisfied, and not be visited with evil .... 26 He who robs his father or his mother sends him away, is the son who brings shame and dishonor. 27 My son, hear the instruction, you constantly stray from the words of knowledge. Prov.19 ,18,23-28} See what he says in Prov. 23: {...} 12 Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of conhecimento.13 Do not withhold discipline from the child: for if fustigares with the rod, he will not morrerá.14 Thou shalt beat him with rod, and shalt deliver his soul from inferno.15 My son, if thine heart be wise, will rejoice my heart, yes, my own .... 17 not thine heart envy sinners: but in the fear of the Lord all dia.18 For surely end; not be cut, and your hope. 19 Hear, my son, and be wise, and guide the way your coração.20 Be not among wine drinkers, or with gluttonous eaters of carne.21 For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe is trapos.22 Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old. 23 Buy truth, and do not sell, and also the wisdom, skill and understanding. 24 greatly rejoice the father of the righteous, and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy in it.} "Prov. 15: "10's for severe correction that leaves the path, and that hateth reproof shall die. 11 Hell and destruction are before the LORD: how much more the hearts of the sons of men? "● Know the Lord. When we bring a child into this world, we give life to a person with a spirit that will exist for eternity - or in the presence of God in the glory of heaven, or banished from his presence in the torment of hell (John 5: "19 But Jesus answered and said unto them, In fact, you actually say that the Son by himself can not do anything if you do not see the Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does. 20 For the Father loves the Son and shows him everything he does, and he will show him greater works than these, that you maravilheis.21 For as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, so the Son gives life to those who quer.22 The Father judgeth no man, but hath committed all judgment unto the Son: 23 That they all may honor the Son as they honor the Father who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent him. 24 In fact, I tell you the truth heareth my word and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and not come into condemnation but is passed from death to life. 25 Verily, verily I say next time, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God, and those who hear will live. 26 For as the Father hath life in himself, so hath he given the Son to have life in himself; 27 E gave him authority to execute judgment,He is the Son of homem.28 Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming when all who are in the graves shall hear his voice. 29 And they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life, and those who have done evil unto the resurrection of damnation.
Read Matthew 25:46, He says so in 1 Thessalonians 2: "If 6 is indeed right with God to recompense tribulation to them that you atribulam, 7 And to you who are troubled rest with us when we express Lord Jesus from heaven with the angels of his power, 8 In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: 9 Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction, in the face of the Lord and the glory of his power,11 Wherefore also we pray always for you, that our God may count you worthy of his calling, and fulfill every desire of goodness and the work of faith with power: 12 That the name of our Lord Jesus Christ be in you glorified, and you in him, according to the grace of our God and Lord Jesus Christ. "That child grows, becomes responsible for their actions and, unfortunately, sins against God says so in Romans 3: 22" This is the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference. 23 For all have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God 24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. 25 Whom God a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God; 26 to show his righteousness at this present time, so that it is just and the justifier of him that have faith in Jesus. "To have eternal life and avoid eternal punishment, he must know the Lord. Must believe in Jesus Christ John 8: "20 These words spake Jesus in the treasury, teaching in the temple, and no one arrested him, because it was not yet come to its hora.21 told them Jesus therefore, again, I take me, and ye shall seek me and die in your sins. Where I go, ye can not vir.22 Then said the Jews, Did want to kill himself because he saith, Whither I go ye can not come? 23 And he said unto them, Ye are from beneath, I am from above: ye are of this world, I am not of this world. 24 Therefore I said to die in your sins, because they do not believe that I am, die in your sins.Repent Luke 13: "2 And Jesus answering said unto them, Suppose ye that these Galileans were sinners above all the Galileans because they suffered such things? 3 No, I tell you, but unless you repent you will all likewise perish. 4 Or those eighteen, upon whom the tower in Siloam fell and slew them, think ye that they were more guilty than all men that dwelt in Jerusalem? 5 No, I tell you, but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.
And be baptized for the remission of sins (Acts 2: "38 And Peter said unto them, Repent, and each one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and receive the gift of the Holy Spirit; 39 For the promise is unto you and to your children, and all that are afar off, as many as the Lord our God shall call. "See what it says in Mark 16: 16 "He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved: but he that believeth not shall be damned. 17 And these signs shall follow them that believe: In my name shall they cast out devils, speak with new tongues; 18 They shall take up serpents, and if they drink any deadly thing, it does not harm themsome, and put their hands on the sick, and they shall recover. " Parents should teach their children about God and salvation in Jesus.● Knowing the Bible. To know the Lord, it is necessary to know the word he told us. Psalm 78 speaks of the importance of teaching based on biblical history. Young children like to hear the stories of Noah, Abraham, Moses, David, Daniel, etc.. They can learn many important facts about God. Approaching adolescence, develop a greater capacity to understand the teachings (doctrines) of the Bible, now with a solid foundation of historical understanding. Start early and continue to help their children grow in knowledge of the word.● Distinguish between right and wrong. The first child born in the history of the world sinned when they chose the good (Genesis 4:7). {... 1 And Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, and said, I reached one of the Lord homem.7 If thou doest well, is not certain that be accepted? And if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door, and unto thee shall be his desire, but thou shalt rule over him.}Our children will have to decide between two paths with destinations opposite Matthew 7: "13 Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction and many there be which go in thereat; 14 Because strait is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and few there be that find it. "See what it says in Hebrews 5. "13 For anyone who still lives on milk is unskillful in the word of righteousness, because it is menino.14 But solid food is for the mature, who, by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil. "This ability to distinguish between good and evil define several decisions in life: "What justifies thewicked and he who condemns the righteous are an abomination to the Lord, both it and the other is an abomination to the Lord "(Prov. 17:15).● Work and be responsible. Man was created to work, and must be responsible in all their undertakings. God has always condemned laziness (Proverbs 6:6-11; 19:15,24). Prov. 6. "6 Go to the ant, thou sluggard, consider her ways and be wise. 7 For her, having no chief, or guard, or ruler, 8 Prepares her food in summer in the harvest gathereth her food. 9 O sluggard, even when you will be lying? When you lift up from your sleep? 10 A little sleep, a little slumber, a little to stand idly by, 11 So shall thy poverty come as a thief, and thy want as an armed man. "
Paul said: "If any would not work, neither should he eat" 2 Thessalonians 3: "8 Neither we eat the bread of man, but with labor and travail, working night and day, we might not burden any of you. 9 Not because we did not have authority, but to give you in ourselves an example to imitate us. 10 For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, do not eat também.11 For we hear that some among you walk disorderly, working not before making things vãs.12 Now such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, who, working with quietness and eat their own bread. "Since financial responsibility towards the family, he said: "Now if anyone does not provideand especially of their own house, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever "(1 Timothy 5:8).● To be responsible for their actions. Since the sin of the first couple, people have tried to escape responsibility for their actions (see Genesis 3:11-13). The woman blamed the serpent that tried. The man blamed the woman and even tried to play a part of the blame on God for having created its mate! Many people now prefer to say that "happened" to avoid admitting that "I did." It is easier to blame the government or society to take responsibility for their actions. No one has ever justify sin. God justifies sinners repent!● To fulfill their duties in the family. Parents faithful to God, faithful to their spouses and children faithful to help children learn their roles in the family (Ephesians 5:22-6:4). Ef.5. "22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, being himself the savior of corpo.24 So that, so As the church submits to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their maridos.25 Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 To present himself a glorious church, without stain or wrinkle or any such thing, but holy and irrepreensível.28 So ought men to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, his flesh, and of his bones.See what it says in Ephesians 6. "1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 Honour thy father and thy mother, who is the first commandment with promise: 3 If you want may go well and live long on the earth. 4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. "Parents need to be real men that support and guide their families. Mothers need to be submissive to their husbands, showing love for them and their children. Children must be obedient, respecting and honoring parents. And parents should teach their children, helping them to grow up to be men and women faithful to God and devoted to their families.● Learn from an eternal perspective. We all need to learn to look at everything around us from an eternal perspective. People care about materialistic things passing. People look at spiritual things eternal. We and our children, we learn that "the 17th Psalm 90.1," was a prayer that Moses asked the Lord "God" see what this verse says. "9 For all our days are passed away in thy wrath: we spend our years as a tale that is told. 10 The days of our life is seventy years, and if by its robustness, even eighty years, their pride is labor and sorrow, as soon cut off and we fly away. 11 Who knoweth the power of thine anger? Second are awesome, so is thy furor.12 Teach us to number our days, so we reach hearts unto wisdom. 13 O turn unto us, Lord, how long? It repent thee concerning thy servants. 14 satisfy us early with thy mercy, that we may rejoice and be glad all our days. 15 Rejoice in the days wherein thou hast afflicted us, and the years wherein we have seen evil. 16 Show up yourwork to thy servants, and thy glory unto their children. And 17 is upon us the beauty of the Lord our God upon us and confirms the work of our hands, yea, the work of our hands. "
We must teach and live in a way that our children can learn to build up your treasures in heaven, not here on earth Matthew 6: "19 Lay not up treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal , 20 But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume and where thieves do not break through nor steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there also will your heart. "Pay close attention to what he says in Luke 12. "15 And he said unto them, Take heed and beware of covetousness: for a living does not consist in the abundance of his possessions. 16 And offered him a parable, saying, The land of a rich man brought forth plentifully: 17 And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do? I have no where to bestow my frutos.18 And said that I will pull down my barns and build greater, and there I will store all my fruits and my goods; 19 And tell my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods for many years, rest, eat, drink and folga.20 But God said to him, Fool! This night your soul will be demanded from, and what you have prepared, whose will they be? 21 So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God. "Life is like a fog, a vapor (James 4:13-15). "13 Now listen, you who say, Today or tomorrow we will go into this city, and continue there a year and contrataremos, and gain; 14 I tell you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little, and then desvanece.15 Instead, you ought to say, If the Lord wills, and if we live, do this or that.16 But now ye rejoice in your boastings: all such rejoicing is maligna.17 him therefore that knoweth to do good and not doing it is sin. "After this life and eternity comes judgment (Hebrews 9:27). "27 And, as is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment: 28 So Christ was offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time without sin, to those who hope for salvation. "
Let's teach the word of God to help our children look to prepare for eternity and eternal life in God's presence! Being parents is a great blessing and a huge responsibility that reaches into eternity. We will do our best to guide our children in the way of the Lord. Written by Dennis Allan, and researched by Jose Carlos Ribeiro, a member of GDP in Campo Grande MS. Be fathers or mothers can be an adventure difficult and fraught with problems, but one of the most rewarding and satisfying things we can do. God has much to say about how we can be successful in raising our children to be godly people. The first thing we do is teach them the truth about God's Word. In addition to love God and to be godly examples of people who are committed to His commandments, we must do what the verse says: "And you shall teach your sons and shall speak of them sit in your house, walk by the way, and lying to you and rise up. You shall bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates "(Deuteronomy 6:7-9). Following figuratively, these commandments God gave to the Hebrews, we teach our children that the worship of God should be constant, and not just reserved for Sunday morning or evening prayers.
Although learning a lot through direct teaching, our children learn much more by watching us, their parents. This explains why we should be careful in everything we do. We must first acknowledge our God-given roles. Husbands and wives should be mutually respectful and submissive to one another (Ephesians 5:21). At the same time, God established a line of authority to keep order. I Corinthians 11:3 says, "But I want you to know that Christ is the head of every man, man and the woman's head, and God the head of Christ." We know that Christ is not inferior to God, just as the woman is not inferior to her husband. God recognizes, however, that without submission to authority, no order. The responsibility of the husband as head of the house, is to love his wife as he loves his own body, the same sacrificial way that Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:2-2 to 29). PS Have you seen this passage referred to here in previous pages.In response to this loving leadership, it is difficult for the wife to submit to the authority of her husband (Ephesians 5:24, says so in Colossians 3: "18 Wives, be in subjection unto your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. 20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, provoke not your children, not to lose heart. "His primary responsibility is to love your spouse and children live with wisdom and purity, and take care of the home (Titus 2:3-5). "3 Older women likewise, that they are serious in your life, as befits the saints, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, good homemakers, subject to their husbands, so that the word of God be not blasphemed. "
Women are naturally more "capable of caring" than men because they were designed to be the primary caretakers of their offspring. Discipline and instruction are integral parts of a father and a mother. Proverbs 13:24 says: "What does not make use of the rod hates his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Children who grow up in a home without discipline feel unwanted and unworthy. They lack direction and self-control, and as they grow they rebel and have little or no respect for any authority, including God. "Discipline your son while there is hope, but do not let your soul exalt themselves to kill him" (Prov. 19:18). At the same time, the discipline must be balanced with love, or children may grow resentful, discouraged, and rebellious (Colossians 3:21). God recognizes that discipline is painful when it occurs (Hebrews 12: "5 And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not the chastening of the Lord, And nor faint when thou art rebuked by him; 6 For the Lord loveth he, and he punishes every son whom he receiveth. 7 If ye endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards and not sons. 9 In addition we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we revere; much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For those in Indeed, for some days chastened us as seemed good to them, but he for our profit, that we may share his holiness. 11 And indeed, the whole correction to this, there seems to be joyous, but of sadness, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those exercised thereby. "
But if followed by instructions in love, is admittedly beneficial to children. "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4).It is important to involve children in the family and church ministry at a young age. Regularly attend a Bible believing church (Hebrews 10:25), "22 Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water, 23 Let us hold fast the confession our hope, for he is faithful that prometeu.24 And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: 25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some, but exhorting one another , and so much more, as ye see the day approaching. 26 For if we sin willfully after we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, ... See what the version .... 29 How much severer punishment do you think he will deserve who foot the Son of God, and has regarded as unclean the blood of the covenant wherewith he was sanctified, and insulted the Spirit of grace?30 For we know him that hath said, Vengeance is mine, I will repay, saith the Lord. And again, The Lord shall judge his people. 31 is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God. "Let them see you studying the Word, and also study the Bible with them. Discuss with them the world around them as they see it, and teach them about the glory of God through everyday life. "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6).SON IS ARROW "Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children ..". Psalm 127. "3 Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord, the fruit of the womb is his reward. 4 Like arrows in the hand of a mighty man, so are the children of the youth. "The joy of the parents to see their children succeeding in life! On the other hand, there is no greater sadness to see them defeated. But how to avoid it? The Bible gives parents some excellent tips on Psalm 127.4, saying that children are like arrows in the hand of a warrior. This comparison is very rich in meaning. For example: a) Whoever has tried to shoot an arrow know it is not easy to hit the target. The same is true for our children is not easy to make them reach the goal of life.b) The logic of the arrow is to go further than the archer. This is also true for our children: we want them to go further we (parents who have not had the opportunity to study insist that their children pursue advanced college; couples who paid rent to lifelong struggle to have their children home itself, and so on). But, so that the arrow hit the target, some conditions must be met:
1. THE ARROWS HAVE TO BE IN THE HAND OF THE WARRIOR: This is one of the most impressive truths of this biblical verse: The success of our children is in our hands. Depends much more on us than them. Sometimes, some couples say they have created their children all the same, but, inexplicably, some fared better than others. Not true! First, no one can raise two children the same way, because every child is different. Second, try to create them in the same way is a mistake because, as a warrior notices the differences between an arrow and another (and take it into consideration when releasing them), we need to "break" our children and treat each of them differently, personalized. This is not discrimination (in the pejorative sense of the word), but love - that takes into account the individuality. They are in our hands and our hands should in fact be. Do not abandon them to their fate.2. IT IS NECESSARY THAT THERE IS A WELL DEFINED TARGET FRONT: It may seem silly to say this but the truth is that: a) Many families do not have any target in front. Families will "scraping by" in an endless routine, "no added salt or sugar." Parents do not talk with their children. There is no shared dreams. No family projects. No individual challenges.b) In many families the chosen targets are not appropriate. - Parents projecting their children what they themselves could not or would not do ("I could not study, but my son will be a doctor").
- Parents spending targets for the children-oriented life of materialism, selfishness, exhibitionism, etc..
It is no wonder that over time many young people lose their motivation to study, have discipline, work, etc.. What life goals that you have placed in front of their children? - What your kids will be when you grow up? What is the natural vocation of them? It is clear that tests of vocation can help us to direct them, but for the sake of truth, who else knows the children that the parents themselves? Who better to help them realize their natural gifts? Let us help our children to have a target of life. A target noble, dignified, that takes into account their strengths and weaknesses, but above all, a target that will lead them to God, therefore there is no happiness or no future without a true personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Wish them to be happy, prosperous, mature, helpful, but, above all, they are men and women of God.3. The ARCHER MUST HAVE STRONG ARM: For an arrow reaches its target it is necessary that the archer has a strong arm. This also applies to our children, so that they reach the goal of life, parents need to be strong figures, remarkable. Need to exercise authority. Set boundaries and enforce rules. From the very beginning. You may think that they will hate you for it, but do not be fooled, deep down they know the rules and limits are important because they convey them safe and teach them to lead their own lives. They are like traffic lanes on the pavement, which limit the movement of vehicles, but makes all trafeguem safely. However, our children are endowed with a logical, not just download standards and impose limits as dictators, we must explain to them why. Once you have understood, it will be easier for them to obey. But if, despite the dialogue, the children insist on being rebels, parents should enforce their punishment. It may be some punishment (like spanking some ass, for example) or can be, as they say, "let the punishment." But beware: Never spank your child or mug - physically or verbally. They will never be hurt by a righteous retribution, deserved and well spent. On the other hand, carry the soul - forever - the pain of injustice and humiliation imposed by their parents.4. The ARCHER MUST be skillful, not enough strength. You must also have skill. An arrow shot with force, but without skill can achieve anything, including Archer's own heart. Here are some desirable skills in parents:
a) Knowing the time to say "Yes" and knowing when to say "No". You have to learn to say "no" - impose limits - but you also need to know to give. We must give them room to grow, make their own decisions (even though some decisions may not be good for them). The fact is that they need to learn, including through their own mistakes. Knowing when to say "yes" is as important as being strong to say "no." Every good general knows when to attack and when to retreat. A strategic retreat is as precious as a well-planned attack.
b) Treat your child with respect: Respect him as a human being, unique, dignified. The child treated with respect learns to respect others. Respect their stages of growth, with its conflicts and needs. Even forms of motivation and correcting changes with time. For example, a 15 year old is not motivated the same way that a child of five. The same is true of punishment: a slap on the butt to 5 years can solve many things, but at 15 years this type of punishment is inappropriate.c) Be consistent. Nobody likes it when the "game rules" are changed every moment, is not it? Would you like to work with a boss like? Now imagine how it must be for children when parents change or forget the rules they themselves have created? This leaves them angry and confused! Remember that the Bible warns us about this: "Fathers, provoke not your children, lest they be discouraged" - Colossians 3.5. d) Preparing children for life: Many parents feel hurt when children begin to take its first "flights" alone. Do not be so! Like an arrow released after, one day our children will go and have to fend for themselves. Encourage them to become independent and prepare them to this day, training them in small but important tasks of day-to-day, for example, cooking, washing their own clothes, work, etc..
e) Love them unconditionally: Many children are afraid to even try for fear of failing, because they think that their parents will not love them the same way if they fail. Move this phantom of the head of their children. Show them your love, affection, care permanently. Kiss them, honor them, hug them, pamper them. Love has no contraindications. Affection does not spoil anyone. Affection does not generate disaffection. The certainty of this unconditional love will help them grow and succeed. 5. A NEED TO BE STRAIGHT ARROW: Our children also need strength of character, ethics, morals.Our children also need strength of character, ethics, morals.Lately there has been much talk in business ethics. But is not this kind of ethics that I want to talk, because business ethics is concerned merely to offer the customer a product or service quality - to increase your profits - regardless of whether or not there are ethical in their relationship with the environment environment, suppliers, competitors and employees. I speak of a deeper ethical. Intrinsic. Own being. That type of character that will never allow, for example, injure or betray the next spouse, whether being watched or not. This kind of character does not just happen. We learn from the parents and with biblical teachings. a) The influence of parents: - Through dialogue. The ongoing dialogue with their children - from early childhood - is essential to them. Get involved with your children. Meet your friends. The places they frequent. The ideologies of their "tribes". What they're reading, watching and listening. Talk to them about drugs, alcohol, pregnancy, AIDS, road rage, violence at parties, involvement in crime, friendships risk, etc.. But please, do not talk to their children only heavy themes. Converse also nonsense. Things like music, football, news of the day, the same day (if you're beautiful or not), etc.. How do you do with your friends. Have your say, listen and value their opinion. Help them to "interpret" the world.
- Through the examples of everyday life: Your children are watching you. You are your first, largest and main reference them. "What you do speaks louder than what you say" For example, a father who puts his son on the phone and sends word that he is not home, you can not ever convince him that lying is wrong. b) The teachings of the Bible: Unlike human ethics and morality - that are philosophical or purely pragmatic - the ethics and morals are divine REVEALED. The ethical and moral principles of the Bible are universal (apply to all men of all times and places) and are eternal, that is worth in the past, apply today and will continue to be worth tomorrow. For example, to kill another human being has always been wrong and will continue to be so at all times, places and cultures.Regardless of their religion, to teach their children to moral rectitude advocated in the Bible. The biblical teachings do not change - your kids will never be confused as to what is right and wrong, or as to what should or should not do. Also, open your heart and invite Jesus into your life and your home. When the Holy Spirit of God acts in the human heart, it transforms the person literally. Ethics and morality in the Bible revealed by God to embody the Christian's soul.
6. THE GRACE OF GOD FAMILY NEEDS A REALITY. Teach your children to depend on God and His grace. Even when the archer is strong and skilful, the arrow is straight ahead and the target is well defined, yet there is no guarantee that the arrow will hit the target, because along the way may appear an obstacle or a wind can deflect arrow. The same can happen to our children: obstacles can appear along the way (negative influence of friends, addictions, prostitution, etc..) Or headwinds may divert them from the target (fatalities, illnesses, poverty, unemployment, etc.)..We can not count on luck, with regard to our children, because luck may fail.We have to rely on the grace of God because GOD NEVER FAILS.
We need the grace of God. Only He can help us. Even when other conditions are not ideal at that point, he (and only he) can help us. His redeeming grace, delivers, restores, perfect. His grace is sufficient for us. When, finally, our children reach the target, say aloud: Thank God!
ARROWS ARE CHILDREN: - The arrows have to be in the hand of a warrior. There must be a clear target in front. The archer must have a strong arm. The archer must be skilled.- The arrow must be straight. The grace of God must be a familiar reality. God be praised!Author: Franco Pr. Site of Pastor (www.sitedopastor.com.br) Researcher: Jose Carlos Ribeiro, a memberPiB of Campo Grande MS. God, Creator of all things performed the first marriage thus constituting the first home through the first couple, Adam and Eve, to live side by side with respect and sanctity for breeding should be conducted by sex pleasure without sin, we should and must be performed according to biblical teachings. The descendants of the first couple should fill the earth, ie, populates it with what she would become without doubt in a beautiful garden and blessed by the eternal Father, but sin entered the world by being the first couple, upset everything as we see Today, free sex, pure filth and profanity total misery unequaled.Thinking about it we decided to write something within our limits that can guide the youth and couples often face problems and do not know how to solve them by creating further problems and leading to the destruction of many homes. Sometimes they are shy of exposing issues that are intimate venue and in fact these issues should only be treated with the right people, balanced and responsible. I am married for over half a century and only one woman, the wife of my youth whom I must be fair as it is written (Malachi 2:15) "And did not he make one, abounding you mind? And wherefore one? He sought a godly seed, so take heed to your spirit, and nobody is unfair to the wife of your youth. " It is with her that we should rejoice (Proverbs 5:18) "Blessed be your fountain, and rejoice with the wife of thy youth." (One has to understand that this loyalty will always be required by all, especially since those who are widowed and marry a second or more will have to be loyal to one another in the same way). A healthy home can be compared to a little corner of heaven, he will have strength to meet the setbacks that will certainly come. Sex is a pleasure that is part of a couple's life. All wishing to establish a home must pray a lot, asking God's guidance, it is serious matter and we can not solve it by arrogance or by our carnal instinct. Many households are made up anyway, get married by the other interests in property, marry the physical or sensual. Others only because of sex, etc.. Hardly these homes remain for a long time because in them missing two essential things: the blessing of God and mutual love. Today marriage is almost extinct, many do not last a year, others end early on and others do not want to get married, living together we will say okay to marry, forgetting or not knowing that marriage to the constitution of the household was required by glory of God to His Blessed Name. The homes built under God's protection is long lasting and only ends with the death of one of the two, except when one deviates practicing infidelity there then everything is ruined.
You need lots of love, faithfulness and obedience to the sacred teachings, they must have patience, resignation and a lot of understanding the two because life is very different from before, before we were free, after the wedding we marital obligations, we have to communicate, if we are we need to solve something and take longer than expected we communicate to others the situation so that no unnecessary worry, there are people who consider themselves absolute and do not communicate in any way bringing with it the troubles home. Alias, those communications should exist even before themarriage, because it costs nothing to the young or the young communicate to their parents or relatives when they donecessary. Children: Sooner or later reach the children and it is obvious that they come through sexual intercourse and having children increases the responsibility of both is necessary to divide the work they will have with the child care home with good witness, care and teaching, at all. There are men who do not help their wives at all, do not exchange a child, not a tidy kitchen, do not make a coffee, they want to be king and only become friendly during sex. In no way diminishes the husband his wife to help take care of home and children.Childhood: Childhood goes until about twelve years old and parents should be more aware about the education of their children so they are not compelled to dangerous deviations. In adolescence may be taken by the vices, drugs, and especially the sexual deviations, such as homosexuality, lesbianism or even rejection of sex which is not normal. Unable to create them in the street leaving the mercy of all evil. We will quote below some means that may lead the child or adolescent to undesirable deviations from normal life. Whether boy or girl, the child needs support mainly from parents and teaching appropriate based on the Holy Bible. Many parents wanted it to be born a girl and a boy instead of thanking God for the child begin to despise her and children without support and without the affection of a father and mother cling to that which pleases the most and that is dangerous and may take them for evil. Many parents only treat the children screaming and often with profanity.Teachings wrong: We will give some wrong teachings that can be taught children in infancy. A girl getting education like child may go astray astray and difficult to return to the good and right way. Should parents teach the child to take pleasure in things feminine and never teach it as a boy. Many buy toys without thinking men, treat them like the little boy want. The girl becomes more masculine interests for the area and then a strong candidate to become a lesbian or other vagaries of life. Never want to do a boy girl! In the same way the boys treated like a girl, whose parents wished that the child was a girl dealing with the child and teach him the only female tasks, buy toys female and the child becomes more comfortable being with the girls start walking up requebrando when uttering words that gesture as a woman begins to take pleasure in playing with dolls, make smoothies, washing clothes, when they become teenagers or young people are not afeiçoam the opposite sex, has no interest in dating, it is abnormal because in adolescence begin sexual impulses, so he will be one step closer to becoming a homosexual, desiring relationships only with the same sex, to the chagrin of those who know the biblical teachings, especially for parents.
The Bible is the correct method to raise children just follow him. Miss playing and FightingPlay many parents teach their children (children) to disrespect their mothers, to bore them with words such as: Boba, ugly, just like Dad. This error is committed by both father and mother, are a joke, but it is very wrong in doing so as it grows and can have unpredictable consequences, dividing up family. Fighting, many couples often address each other with words of abuse, the slights, humiliate each other with hurtful words, words, gestures and often not recommended, and especially before the children, demonstrating a lack of mutual love and consideration. It would be better a loving and respectful treatment because the child's first school is undoubtedly the home where they learn the principles of education, teaching them, it is still difficult today because television and the Internet can have negative effects on them with their training programs that often inconvenience to the teenager, although it has programs that should not exist because it does not bring any benefit to humans.Goals and guidelines for raising children. The Bible has the goals and guidelines to be followed, examine what it says in (Proverbs 22:6) "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, not depart from it." It is understood that it is for both boy or girl. Today is not easy raising children in biblical teachings as the world of globalization and through television and other communications to children and adolescents have scenes of explicit sex scenes of violence and so on. Not having the necessary structures and maturity, which was to be beneficial becomes evil taking teens to feel the desire to commit such acts initiating sexual activity in the wrong way and out of time, being exposed to sexually transmitted diseases including AIDS and many are make marginal living a life of hardship and misery. Because adolescence is dangerous to make a formation of human beings, it takes much love and care in dealing with the adolescent, however, you must also be firm in teaching with paternal authority, never be condoned acts wrong, as this will lead to evil. Even teaching and demanding there are exceptions and some even receiving the sacred teachings deviate even by terrible ways, bringing grief to the whole family. We know that these teachings through television and print media and broadcast aim to teach and warn against the danger, but still immature in mind, produce the opposite effect of making them easy prey of the total imbalance of the training still in initial stage. These teachings are being taught according to human logic, not based on biblical teachings. Let us care for the little ones. In recent times we are perplexed to see the pattern of things contrary to the desired effects, youth, adolescents and children becoming criminals who claim the lives of people a trifle, perhaps to seek out these paths by the influence of violent movies, novels have inappropriate scenes that can be induced infidelity and other types of delinquency. The desenfreamento immorality has caused many evils in society, how many fathers have been murdered by criminals smaller, practically nothing, leaving orphaned children, where parents appear human rights and even some religious leaders in defense of these young offenders, they forget the rights of those whose lives were brutally cut short, in our structure to see who has to vote for president of the republic should also be able to answer for crimes they practice. How many wives and children whose husbands and fathers were killed are at the mercy of life because they have lost that which gave them the love and support, where are the advocates of such rights of minors who practice such things and not defending the orphaned? Poor world we live in! Certainly have a lot of joy to parents who teach their children to obey the teachings of the holy Bible, because those who learn and obey the sacred teachings certainly be honest, sincere, a lot of respect and useful to society, family and nation, with rare exceptions. Here is an example of a family who used the holy teachings in the education of children, see what Paul says (2 Timothy 3:15) "And that from a child thou hast known the sacred writings which are able to make thee wise salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. " There is no more effective way to teach children what the teachings of Jesus Christ. The Bible is the school and the teacher par excellence! The home is the room where you should start teaching, church extension.The Duties of Parents. Parents should understand that home is the school based training of children. In a secular school children will receive education and culture for intellectual knowledge, but the principles of education itself must come from the base which is called home whose parents are teachers. Parents should raise their children in the fear of God. Unfortunately there are homes that are true schools of evil, where they form people angry. The children do not receive a caress, a friendly word. Sometimes when one corrects the other like little children and it is immensely damaging. Sometimes the parent leaves the child only to teach the mother or the mother leaves only contrary to the parent, but the responsibility is on both. Many parents give so much freedom to children that they live on the streets learning what should never learn, do not respect their elders in the church the parents let them run the aisles during the service, rise upon the banks and yet the parents say there's no way this child is naughty, but who have no way are the parents who do not see that she is learning not to honor the work of God. Today you see people saying that we should leave children free to live as they wish, but this teaching has no biblical approval, for the Bible tells us the following: (Proverbs 22:6) "Train up a child in the way he should go, and , when he is old, not depart from it. " It often becomes necessary rod of correction, see what Solomon says in (Proverbs 22:15) "Foolishness is bound in the heart of the boy, but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him." However, any correction should be made with love and understanding, without pleasure and without violence. To educate our children we have the Bible as the basis for it is God's Word! Never allow them to be educated through the baby monitor (television). Parental responsibility is very great, not only in education, she covers up in shopping for clothes, toys, in order to behave as the child understands everything even our gestures often irreverent and not recommended, they observe and keep all . Parents should be the best friends of children never humiliate them before other people, always requiring to be well behaved. We can not blame them at all, but we should also praise them when doing things right. We must pay attention when a child asks us something. Have parents who only know how to shout and rebuke them, never has a word of affection. Does not hold any dialogue with their children. We teach them with love, but also firmly.
Family Planning. We are favorable to family planning. Every couple should make that family planning based on their financial condition in order to raise their children by giving them guidance, education for a dignified life even if it is humble, but honored. Many couples fill the house of children believing it is a sin to avoid and then not have sufficient conditions to create them, especially when they reach adolescence where spending increases and care. So many put their children to work to assist in the maintenance of the home when they should be studying for a decent future. Others leave them at the mercy of the streets where they can follow paths tremendously dangerous. Others think that family planning is a sin and quote the Bible where it says: "Unite and multiply and replenish the earth." The earth is full, God has ordained only fill the earth, not hype. Global organizations no longer know what to do with overpopulation on earth. If household income is small and may have many children? Plan a family within their means, one or more children. Examine the financial part of the home you can afford to support their children until they have the necessary preparation for life which is not easy, many parents think that the biggest expenses while the children are little, but if you cheat too much about it, because in school is that the costs increase greatly. Others claim that the Bible says children are blessings and fill the house of sons and brothers who know pastors so they thought, and filled the house of children and today a large portion of them are diverted from God's ways, some have gone down by drugs, becoming marginal in whose end may be death or jail. Parents have forgotten that Jesus said to be prudent and reckless and did not plan their families. We must examine the Bible texts and contexts. The Roman Catholic Church is against family planning, but we have nothing with this, we will be always with the Bible. How can the leaders of the Catholic Church teaching against family planning if they have never married and they are even banned from a family, contrary to the biblical order as it is written in (1 Timothy 3:2 and 5) "It is, therefore, that the bishop be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, honest, hospitable, able to teach, (...) (because if someone does not know how to rule his own house, take care of the church of God "). Only the woman who is wise is that it is able to educate their children the way God teaches in His Word. Only the wisdom given by God to us is that mothers are able to rid our children's influence in the world. When I put God first in my life when I ask him the wisdom that I have to become a father and mother-fearing and obedient to His commandments, I realize that He is transforming my heart and opened my understanding to educate my children in His ways. Proverbs 22:6 tells us: "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it." The book of Proverbs gives sage advice to be followed by us mothers. I read the Bible from Genesis to Revelation, but if I am right now, worried her with the education of my children then I read the other books of Proverbs and in parallel. I read Proverbs underlining the verses relating to the child's education, to speak in mother, parents, children, creation ...II-PRINCIPLES TO BE FOLLOWED BY A MOTHER: 1 - As a mother, I must teach my children, 2 - As a mother, I must educate my children, 3 - As a mother, I guide my children to be wise,
We will learn the four steps of prayer, and so we pray for our children.1 - Let's start praising God as Jesus taught us the Our Father ... "Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name. 10 Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as in heaven; 11 our daily bread Give us this day, 12 And forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors; 13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever, amen.
- We confess our sins so that we can reach the throne of God with a pure heart and clean. "According to Scripture, there is no effective prayer life when sin retains its hold on the believer's life. This is why confession is so important to our life of communion with the Lord and should be introduced immediately in beginning of prayer. "3 - come to God with thankful hearts, it is the very Word of God tells us ... "In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you" (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Very interesting what tells us the theologian O. Hallesby ... "When we thank God, we are praising God for all He has done for us, and when we worship and praise, are praising God for all He is."4 - come to the throne of God as intercessors praying for someone. Abraham interceded on behalf of his nephew Lot when the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah would be destroyed because there is there even ten righteous people. As intercessors to pray trusting that everything we're asking is in the hands of God who is faithful, kind and has the perfect plan for the life of each person for whom we intercede.1 - praising God: To know that a mother praying for her children is necessary that before, she knows the One who created them so that he could begin his prayer praising Him. Throughout the Bible we can know God and His attributes. We learn that God is ... 1) One Supreme God. We see this attribute of God in Genesis when Melchizedek blesses Abraham and says ... "Blessed be Abram by God Most High, possessor of heaven and earth" (Genesis 14:19). Yes, our God is one Supreme God, the Almighty who is above all. "Lord God, You who are one Supreme God and that you are above everything and everyone takes care of my son, take him in your hands ..." 2) A Sovereign God: Our God is the One who holds supreme power and authority. He is sovereign over the earth and the sky. He is the Lord and all. We learn of God's sovereignty when we read Psalm 135, that tells us ... "Praise the Lord 1. Praise the name of the Lord: praise him, the Lord's servants. 2 Ye that stand in the house of the Lord, in the courts of the house of our God. 3 Praise the Lord because the Lord is good: sing praises unto his name, it is pleasant. 4 For the Lord hath chosen Jacob unto himself, and Israel for his peculiar treasure. 5 For I know that the Lord is great and that our Lord is above all gods. 6 All that the Lord has made, in heaven and on earth, the seas and all deeps. "" My God, my Father, I praise you because you are a Sovereign God, a God of love who looks for every child My individual ... "3) One Almighty God: Our God is a God of wood, nor stone, nor dumb. He is a real God, the Almighty. He has the power to raise the dead, healing lepers, the lame to walk, cast out demons, change a situation ... give us eternal life ... "Great is our Lord and of great power: His understanding is infinite" (Psalm 147:15)."God has spoken once, twice have I heard this: that power belongs to God, 12 Also unto thee, O Lord, belongeth mercy: for retribuirás to each according to his work." (Psalm 62:11,12: You son, see that "God" this is what he says in these verses. "Father, accept my praise, I praise you because you are an Almighty God, all things can. Can bring my son from the darkness to light ... "See what it says in Psalm 68. "19 Blessed be the Lord, who daily bears us up to date of benefits: the God who is our salvation. (Selah) 20 Our God is the God of salvation, and unto GOD the Lord belong the issues from death.4) An Omniscient God. Our God is a God who knows all things. He knows us, knows our thoughts, our walk, the desires of our hearts, our lives ... our children."Shall not God search this out? For He knows the secrets of the heart" (Psalm 44:21).
"Lord God, my Father, You alone know all things, only Thou art an omniscient God, a God who knows the heart of each of your children ...See what it says in John 3. "35 The Father loves the Son, and hath given all things into their mãos.36 He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: but he that believeth not the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God abideth on him. Note here the Father is "God" and He through the Son Jesus, leads us to receive the love of the "Father God" See also ch. 5 John ... {19} But Jesus answered and said unto them, In fact, you actually say that the Son by himself can not do anything if you do not see the Father doing, because whatever he does the Son also does. 20 For the Father loves the Son and shows him everything he does, and he will show him greater works than these, that you maravilheis.21 For as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, so the Son quickeneth whom he will. 23 That all may honor the Son as they honor the Father who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent him. 24 In fact, I tell you the truth heareth my word and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and not come into condemnation but is passed from death to life. 25 Verily, verily I say, the hour cometh, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God, and those who hear will live. 26 For as the Father hath life in himself, so hath he given the Son to have life in himself; 27 And he gave him authority to execute judgment, because he is the Son of man. 28 Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming when all who are in the graves shall hear his voice. 29 And they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life, and those who have done evil unto the resurrection of damnation.}Do not allow your children or do you also see death as through the Son "Jesus" have eternal life, and that is next to the "Father God". And how to do this! Teaching your child the proper way, and that is this track. Through the Son of "God." "He" gave his physical life, to save us and free us from sin and eternal death. Yes: physical death, all we have to spend a day, but eternal life is to just, you know why? Unfortunately humans mostly prefer to live in sin, and thus loses the right to inherit eternal life next to the "Father and the Son, God and Jesus"5) An omnipresent God: Our God is a God who is always present in good times and bad times of our lives. "Let your without covetousness, contented with yourselves that ye have: for He said: I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5). "Father, I thank you because I know that you are an omnipresent God, and therefore, you have had with my children, caring for each one. Thank you for your love and mercy ..."See what the Psalm 91. "1 He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High, in the shadow of the Almighty. "See kids what" God "has for you yet in Psalm 91 .... 2 I will say of the Lord: He is my God, my refuge and my fortress, and trust in Him. 9 For thou, O Lord, are my refuge. Have made the Most High your dwelling. 10 There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy tenda.11 Why shall give his angels charge concerning thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.12 They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone. "6) One True God. It is because of the faithfulness of God we have peace and confidence that one day we will meet him in glory. Psalm 121. "5 The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand." The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in, now and forever " (Psalm 121:5-8). "O Lord, I praise you because you are a faithful God! And it is because of your faithfulness to put into your hands the life of each of my children, knowing that everything you do is to their material and spiritual or "God Benigno A: It is impossible for anyone to measure the goodness of our God. We can, however, imagine it when you stop to think about what we were before and we are now. All this because of His goodness. Consider the words of Spurgeon speaking of the goodness of our God ... "It is during the storm that we learn to give thanks to God for His goodness, And for His wonderful works to the children of men" (Psalm 107:8). "Read Psalm 118, and see how the mercies of the Lord endure forever. "Observing these words we find that, often, believe in the goodness of the Lord by faith because ... How can we believe that He is good when, for example, we see five people getting involved in an automobile accident, and only one, the only believer, died aged 15? Yeah, exactly, because we know that God is good and merciful than we can say that ...a-We believe that God is good, because he saved the young man's father and brother, the day he was to the glory ... "How precious it is, O God, Thy mercy, so that the children of men under the shadow of Your wings" (Psalms 36:7).b-We believe that God is good because, despite the pain, it is he who has the perfect plan for the life of each of His children ... Salmo63. "Because Thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise thee. 4 Thus will I bless thee while I live in thy name I will lift up my hands." C-We believe that God is good because He sent His only begotten Son die by the young and all of us to take us to heaven with Him ... See Psalm 117 and Psalm 118 117.1 Praise the Lord all nations, praise Him all peoples. 2 For his merciful kindness is great for us, the truth of the Lord endures forever. Praise the Lord "It says in Psalm. 118." 1 Praise the Lord, for he is good, because his mercy endureth for sempre.2 Tell Israel now that his mercy endureth sempre.3 Speak now to the house of Aaron, that his mercy endureth forever.4 Say now that fear the Lord that his mercy endureth for sempre.8 is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man. "
"O God, only because of Your mercy is that we stand! Just because you are a gracious God is that I ask for cuidares the lives of our children ..."These and many other attributes of God are what make us love Him, worship Him and honor Him more.The word mercy, you will find muitsa times here in the Bible.2 - confessing their sins, God is a Holy God and therefore can not get full of sins before Him. I have to give him the best of me, to confess my iniquities and thus restore my communion with Him "(1 John 1:9)." 9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. "Not separate from "God because of their iniquities, sins: for this is that we must show the right path from childhood to our children, and that way is Jesus Christ." But if I decide to remain in sin, the Bible tells me ... "But your iniquities have separated you from your God" (Isaiah 59:2). He loves us but hates sin, and if we love Him we must seek to be pure and straight.
My daily prayer should be ... 10 "Create in me, O God, a pure heart and renew a right spirit within me. 13 Then will I teach transgressors thy ways, and sinners shall be converted unto thee. (Psalm 51:10,13).3 - GRATEFUL HEARTS: Daniel was an example of a man grateful to God. The Bible tells us ... "Daniel ... went into his house (now in his room had windows open side of Jerusalem), and three times a day sank to his knees and prayed and gave thanks before his God ... (Daniel 6: 10).See what the Bible tells us that Daniel prayed on his knees three times a day and ... gave thanks. How often do you pray a day? How often do you kneels to pray? How often do you give thanks for so many things that the Lord does for you?
We often ask, ask and ask that, even not notice that the Lord has answered and then ... realize that in fact we do not have a thankful heart. You have thanked God for her husband, for each of your children and especially for the salvation He has given you? "One who offers a sacrifice of praise shall glorify me: and to him that orders your way I show the salvation of God" (Psalms 50:23). This is what the Lord thinks.
4 - Intercession: Our prayer to God is that He help us to be faithful intercessors of our children. "Lord, I praise You for Your faithfulness and goodness! Teach me, Father, to pray for my children and I always pray and never faint!" May Your Spirit, Lord, can you show me each need them. I trust Thee, Father, and I know that You will supply all my needs and fulfill your promises in the day, time and so that thou wilt, Amen. "" My God, according to His riches, will meet all your needs in glory through Jesus Christ. 20 Now to our God and Father be glory for ever and ever. Amen (Philippians 4:19,20).Jeremiah 29. "11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace and not for calamity to give you an expected end. 12 And call upon me, and you will, and pray to Me, and I will ouvirei.13 And ye shall seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. "With all this goodness of the Lord our God we only have they always say ... THANK YOU (A) LORD AND AMEN!(PART TWO) Interceding For My Children "I have no greater joy than this, to hear that my children walk in truth" (3 John 1:4). Listen to who wrote this passage. When I read Isaiah 44:3, remember the faithfulness of God that is poured constantly in our lives. He says in His Word: "I will pour water on the thirsty and floods upon the dry ground: I will pour out My Spirit upon thy seed, and my blessing upon thine offspring." Lord AMEN! Listen to vers.4 also in the 6 '4 And they shall spring up like grass, as willows by the water. 5 One shall say, I am the Lord: and he shall be called the name of Jacob, and another shall subscribe with his hand to the Lord, and surname himself by the name Israel.6 Thus saith the LORD the King of Israel, and its Redeemer, the Lord of hosts: I am the first, and I am the last, and beside me there is no God. "
"Oh Lord, what a wonderful promise! You What security you place in my heart, what joy to know that pour Your Spirit on my children, grandchildren and great grandchildren (or even where my eyes reach) and also to bless! Obrigad (a) Father, for bringing refreshment to my soul!Amen! "Another promise of the Lord that gladdens my heart and renews my strength is in28 hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth or get tired or weary? His understanding is inscrutable. 29 It gives strength to the weary, and multiplies the forces that have no effect. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men shall utterly fall: But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength they shall mount up with wings as eagles, run and not grow weary, walk and not faint. "Isaiah 40.28,31I love you both my children to pray every day for each one individually. In addition, every child knows, every need, every desire ... and believe in the promise of the Lord says to me ... "Call unto Me, and answer thee, shew thee great and mighty things which thou knowest not" (Jeremiah 33:3).As a mother to rest in the Lord and delivered into his hands but not ceasing to pray for them. Despite the problems that have as a parent, you have to face, and he wisely resolved, I know the Lord is always with you. And in this confidence, I know that neither me or tire me fatigarei, for He is always my "... refuge and strength ..." (Psalms 46:1) and He will intercede for my children.
Salvation, spiritual life, involvement in church, purity, work, studies, friends, future spouses ... are areas of the lives of my children why I put on my knees and pray to the Father, pleading for each. As always, the Word of God strengthens my spirit ... "The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective" (James 5:16). Good to know it!Note that, in the lives of their children, they each have different needs and realize that we must pray for each and every need. Among many needs we observe only a few that I really thought the most important ...1 - The salvation of my son; 2 - The spiritual life of my son; 3 - Sanctification in the life of my son;4 - my son's involvement in the church; 5 - The friends of my son.1 - The Sons Of Salvation. Ask God for the salvation of his son, the request is more important and urgent that a mother should do. There is in this life is nothing more important or more urgent than the eternal salvation of our children. They need to know the plan of salvation and accept Jesus in their lives. And it's up to us, we speak of this so great love of God as soon as they do not know if our son will be alive in five minutes. So I pray and ask the Father that He send His Holy Spirit to convince my son of sin and the need to accept Jesus as their Savior. Mother, pray for the salvation of your child is an "eternal investment." When we see our children, one by one, accepting Jesus into their lives, we see how our Heavenly Father is faithful and is always listening to our prayers. It is he who tells me ... (Ezekiel 11:19). "19 I will give them one heart, and a new spirit will I put within them, and take away your flesh the heart of stone and give them an heart of flesh: 20 That they may walk in my statutes, and keep mine ordinances, and do them: and they shall be my people, and I will be their God. 21 But as for them whose heart walketh after the heart of their detestable things and their abominations, I will fall on their heads their way, says the Lord God. "
Pray for your son, for the salvation of his soul may depend on your prayer and supplication.2 - The Spiritual Life Of My Child. The mother who really loves his son wants him to grow spiritually in God's ways. Our son can not be a babe in Christ forever. He has to mature and know the God who saved him by His commandments, His Word. In his moments of prayer, ask the Lord for the spiritual life of his son, his dedication to Bible reading, prayer, praise and gone to church services. Romans 1:28 warns us of the need to know the Almighty God ... "And as they did not care to have knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient." You do not want this for your son, is not it? So get on my knees and pray ... pray ... and pray!3 - The Sanctification Of Life My Son: The Bible tells me ... "He who loves purity of heart, and is kind of lips, is the king's friend" (Prov. 22:11).Yet learned the Word of God ... "Are an abomination to the Lord thoughts of the wicked, but the words of the pure are pleasant" (Proverbs 15:26). Purity and holiness in the heart of a child is something that every mother wants to see. Having a child whose words are pleasing to God is the result of hours of prayer of a mother who loves and cares for him. How long you and I we pray for our children, every day? You and I have prayed for their salvation? And the spiritual life? You and I have bent our knees and put this area of their lives on the altar of the Lord? We mothers as parents, we thought it important to pray and implore the Lord for Him to change the hearts of our children and turn them into young pure and holy?Let our children know God's will in their lives watching 1 Thessalonians 4:1,3 says: "Finally, brethren, pray and exhort in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us, how ought to walk and to please God, so walk, that you may progress more ... Because this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from fornication: 4 That every one of you know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor; 5 Not in passion of lust like the Gentiles who know not God.4 - Involvement Of My Son in the Church. For my son likes to go to church, he must have the Holy Spirit dwelling in him. He must have accepted Jesus as your one and only Savior. So ... what I have to do to see my son involved with the things of God? First, I have to tell you the love of God who sent His only begotten Son to die for us and give us eternal life. Then I have to pray and ask God that His Spirit to make him understand His perfect plan of salvation and he decides to accept Him into your life. Finally, I pray to God to put my son in the heart of love for His work. For my son's interest in things of the Lord that I also encourage you to go to youth camps, Bible clubs, church activities, youth group ... and then ... pray that His Spirit operate in his life. Nor should I forget to show you what the Word of God says ... "Colossians 3:23 And whatsoever ye do, do it with all my heart, as unto the Lord, not men 24 Knowing that the Lord will receive the reward of the inheritance, because Christ the Lord, serve. 25 But who has insulted you do receive the wrong, because there is no respecter of persons. "Notice that "God through his son Jesus, will never make sense of people5 - The Friends Of My Son: Listen to this sister unknown to me, but super known for "God" Oh, how I would have prayed for each of my children, well before they were born! How I would have prayed when they were still little babies ... for their salvation, the spiritual growth of each, for the sanctification and their love for the Lord's work! But ... I still was not a child of God. Today, having accepted Jesus into my life and my children grown, I see a great need to pray for my grandchildren (loves of my life) and by their friends who may be a blessing or curse in their lives. PS I am sending you this message, I have three daughters, one foster, and I was not born in a cradle Gospel: I am come to seek "God" after 40 years, and how I regret not having done this before. I still have no grandchildren, but now my wife goes with me to church with my youngest adoptive.The first book of Corinthians 15:33 warns us saying ... "Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners. 34 Awake to righteousness and sin not because some have no knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame." Proverbs 22:24-25 shows us how we should pray the Lord our children away from bad influences so that they do not follow crooked paths by which enlaçarão their souls ... "Do not be quarrelsome fellow man or walk with the choleric. To not learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul. "Dear, reader (s) know that every child has different needs. It is important that we have with each one individually, times of fellowship, a friendly conversation, companionship, respect. With wisdom, we can penetrate their hearts and know them more deeply so that we can pray for them based on what they need. As parents, we are concerned with various areas of life of our children, so we organize our requests according to the needs of each one. As they grow, the needs are changing and we kept praying and praying and praying without ceasing. This is our role with our children ... pray tirelessly and relentlessly and see, little by little, God answered our prayers ... our children walking in His ways with pure souls and giving example of true Christians who love the Lord. "O God, Thou who art a merciful God Almighty and the Almighty, have mercy on my son's life! You know, and I know that he is not walking in Thy ways. Long ago, he abandoned you and has no heard your voice. You know how my heart is crying for that prodigal son and I know that in these moments, Thou art with me, consoling me. Father, it removes the bad influence of friends! What he can not sleep, thinking how much is wrong to walk "the way of sinners." Let him go back to that first love that he had before all this I see now. what he feels homesick for Your love, Your care, Your Word. Pour, Father , blessings in your life! That as the prodigal son, he ran back to your arms, and all together one day in eternity, we may praise Thee and adore Thee. In Jesus' name ... Amen! " Take for example this beautiful prayer of this mother.
Susanna Wesley is my favorite and we can learn a lot from her. In his nineteen children, born between 1690 and 1709, only nine reached adulthood. After she had her ninth child, Susanna decided to increase their time of devotion and prayer for one hour to two. Those who knew him knew his courage and peace were the moments she spent with God every day. Susanna's life was not easy. His house was a mud hut, her husband was a very difficult man, his house caught fire twice, and almost everything was destroyed, she had major financial problems because of the debts of her husband. But his strength was in the Lord, and her purpose was clear: to raise their children to the glory of God. Susanna rigorously educated their children, teaching them six hours a day at home but she knew their spiritual maturity depended on divine help. His biography describes how she put each child to sleep and watched every face in the candlelight, while praying that God will inspire each of them in such a way that could be used to change the world ... "(Cheri Fuller). We know that one of his sons (John Wesley) became a great preacher of the gospel and another (Charles Wesley) was known composer of several hymns in church. That just like Susanna Wesley, we can transform us fathers and mothers of prayer. That our God transform us into real speakers, who trust in His blessings even though often not the way we think, but trusting that His decision is wiser than ours.All Scripture quotations are from ACF (Fixed True Adams, the SBTB). The ACF and ARC (ARC ideally by 1894, no later than the IBB-1948 edition, not the SBB-1995) are the only printed Bibles that the believer should use, because they are good heirs of the Reformation of the Bible (Almeida 1681/1753) faithfully translated only the Word of God infallibly preserved (and finally printed in the Reformation, as the Textus Receptus). http://solascriptura-tt.org/)The Importance of Education: Both the Old and New Testament, God emphasized the importance of education from parents to children. At the time of the Patriarchs, God entrusted the determination of faithful men to pass on his instructions to subsequent generations. He said about Abraham: "Because I chose to command his children and his household after him, in order to keep the way of the Lord and to do justice and judgment" (Genesis 18:19). Trust God to Abraham was not based on the experience of this man as a father. God knew that Abraham was faithful to the Lord, and do your best as a father. When Moses summed up the will of God to the Israelites in the last weeks of his life, he said: "These words which I command you today shall be in thine heart: thou shall teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt speak of them sit in your house, walk by the way, and when you lie down and when you rise up "(Deut. 6:6-7). Asaph, a psalmist of Israel, wrote: "What we hear and learn what our parents told us not to hide them to their children, will tell the coming generation the praises of the Lord, and his power, and the wonders he has done" (Psalm 78:3-4).The book of Proverbs contains much practical teaching from parents to children. Consider some verses that stress the importance of giving and receiving this advice: "Listen, children, father's instruction and attend to know understanding" (4:1), "My son, attend to my words, my teaching give ear "(4:20)" My son, keep thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother "(6:20)," A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother "(10:1)," A wise son heareth his father's instruction, but a scoffer does not meet the rebuke "(13:1)," Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old he will not depart from it "(22:6).The New Testament also speaks of the importance of education by parents. Paul commented on faith that Timothy learned from her mother and grandmother (2 Timothy 1:5). The same apostle wrote: "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). Theauthor of Hebrews commented on the importance of discipline in the education of children (Hebrews 12:4-11).The whole Bible emphasizes the importance of parenting their children.Some Things Parents Should Teach Your Children: A small study like this is not enough to talk about everything that parents need to communicate to their children. Any parent could stop here and devote himself to the study of the Bible itself to find a much broader orientation. Learn how to be faithful to God and seek to teach the same principles to their children. The suggestions that follow serve to initiate or guide your study, but are not a complete list of instructions that the children need. Let's consider some things that children should learn from their parents.● Respect authority. Learning to respect the absolute authority of the Lord is of paramount importance for the eternal salvation of the children (Matthew 28:18-20, "18 And he came to Jesus spake unto them, saying to me is given all power in heaven and earth.19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son, and Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the ages, amen. "2 Thessalonians 1. "7 And to you who are troubled rest with us when revelation of the Lord Jesus from heaven with the angels of his power, 8 In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: 9 Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the face of the Lord and the glory of his power, 10 When it comes to be glorified in his saints, and to be marveled at that day all who believe (becauseour testimony among you was believed) .11 Therefore we also pray always for you, so that ourGod may count you worthy of this calling, and fulfill every desire of goodness and the work of faith with power;12 That the name of our Lord Jesus Christ be glorified in you, and ye in him, according to the grace of our God and Lord Jesus Christ. "
But this lesson begins before children develop the ability to understand the idea of a Being spiritual and invisible. When the child learns to respect the authority of the mother and earthly father, takes an important step in the direction of submission to God. If you do not respect the parent visible, as will obey the Heavenly Father? The principle of respect should cover other authority figures - school teachers, supervisors, service, government officials and spiritual leaders (read Romans 13:1 to 141 Peter 2:13,19, 3:1, 1 Peter. 2. "13 Submit yourselves therefore to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake, whether to the king, as supreme; 14 Want to governors as sent by him for the punishment of evildoers and for praise to them that do well. 15 For so is the will of God, that with well doing, tapeis the mouth to the ignorance of foolish men: 16 As free, and not using your liberty for a cloke of maliciousness, but as servants of God.17 Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king. 18 Slaves, submit yourselves with all fear to you, not only to the good and human, but also to maus.19 Why nice thing, that someone, because of conscience toward God, suffer injuries, suffering wrongfully. "Regarding women, in the words of Paul. In the 22 2Ped.3.1
The duties of wives and husbands ... Christian {1} Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that, even if any obey not the word, the conversation of the wives be won without a word, whereas the second behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, the use of gold jewelry, on of apparel; 4 But the hidden man of the heart, in imperishable garb of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious to God ..... 6 As Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are doing good, and not afraid with any amazement. 7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel; you as his co-heirs of the grace of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers ...
Brotherly Love - The patient in tribulation, after the example of Christ8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, sympathetic, love as brethren, entranhavelmente merciful and gracious. 9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing, knowing that for this you were called, that ye may obtain an inheritance to bênção.10 Because who would love life And see good days, the Refrain his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit .... Read to the version. 22, AmenSee what it says in Hebrews 13:17). 17 Obey your leaders and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls as they that must give account, to do so with joy and not with grief, not because it would be useful to you.● Recognize limits and consequences. Parents need to teach the principle of collection: "What a man soweth, that shall he also reap" (Galatians 6:7); "7 Be not deceived: God is not mockedbecause whatever a man soweth, that also ceifará.8 he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption: but he that soweth to the Spirit, the Spirit will reap eternal life. 9 And let us not become weary in doing good, for in due time we shall reap if we do not desfalecido.10 So, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, but especially to the household of faith. "See what it says in (Proverbs 22:8 -9). "The eight who sows iniquity will reap evils, and with the rod of his own indignation will become extinct. 9 What welcomes is blessed, for he giveth of his bread to the poor. "
Disobedience must be punished: {...} 18 Discipline your son while there is hope, but do not let your mind get excited until the kill. ... 23 The fear of the LORD leads to life: he that hath shall be satisfied, and not be visited with evil .... 26 He who robs his father or his mother sends him away, is the son who brings shame and dishonor. 27 My son, hear the instruction, you constantly stray from the words of knowledge. Prov.19 ,18,23-28} See what he says in Prov. 23: {...} 12 Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of conhecimento.13 Do not withhold discipline from the child: for if fustigares with the rod, he will not morrerá.14 Thou shalt beat him with rod, and shalt deliver his soul from inferno.15 My son, if thine heart be wise, will rejoice my heart, yes, my own .... 17 not thine heart envy sinners: but in the fear of the Lord all dia.18 For surely end; not be cut, and your hope. 19 Hear, my son, and be wise, and guide the way your coração.20 Be not among wine drinkers, or with gluttonous eaters of carne.21 For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe is trapos.22 Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old. 23 Buy truth, and do not sell, and also the wisdom, skill and understanding. 24 greatly rejoice the father of the righteous, and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy in it.} "Prov. 15: "10's for severe correction that leaves the path, and that hateth reproof shall die. 11 Hell and destruction are before the LORD: how much more the hearts of the sons of men? "● Know the Lord. When we bring a child into this world, we give life to a person with a spirit that will exist for eternity - or in the presence of God in the glory of heaven, or banished from his presence in the torment of hell (John 5: "19 But Jesus answered and said unto them, In fact, you actually say that the Son by himself can not do anything if you do not see the Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does. 20 For the Father loves the Son and shows him everything he does, and he will show him greater works than these, that you maravilheis.21 For as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, so the Son gives life to those who quer.22 The Father judgeth no man, but hath committed all judgment unto the Son: 23 That they all may honor the Son as they honor the Father who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent him. 24 In fact, I tell you the truth heareth my word and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and not come into condemnation but is passed from death to life. 25 Verily, verily I say next time, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God, and those who hear will live. 26 For as the Father hath life in himself, so hath he given the Son to have life in himself; 27 E gave him authority to execute judgment,He is the Son of homem.28 Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming when all who are in the graves shall hear his voice. 29 And they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life, and those who have done evil unto the resurrection of damnation.
Read Matthew 25:46, He says so in 1 Thessalonians 2: "If 6 is indeed right with God to recompense tribulation to them that you atribulam, 7 And to you who are troubled rest with us when we express Lord Jesus from heaven with the angels of his power, 8 In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: 9 Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction, in the face of the Lord and the glory of his power,11 Wherefore also we pray always for you, that our God may count you worthy of his calling, and fulfill every desire of goodness and the work of faith with power: 12 That the name of our Lord Jesus Christ be in you glorified, and you in him, according to the grace of our God and Lord Jesus Christ. "That child grows, becomes responsible for their actions and, unfortunately, sins against God says so in Romans 3: 22" This is the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference. 23 For all have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God 24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. 25 Whom God a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God; 26 to show his righteousness at this present time, so that it is just and the justifier of him that have faith in Jesus. "To have eternal life and avoid eternal punishment, he must know the Lord. Must believe in Jesus Christ John 8: "20 These words spake Jesus in the treasury, teaching in the temple, and no one arrested him, because it was not yet come to its hora.21 told them Jesus therefore, again, I take me, and ye shall seek me and die in your sins. Where I go, ye can not vir.22 Then said the Jews, Did want to kill himself because he saith, Whither I go ye can not come? 23 And he said unto them, Ye are from beneath, I am from above: ye are of this world, I am not of this world. 24 Therefore I said to die in your sins, because they do not believe that I am, die in your sins.Repent Luke 13: "2 And Jesus answering said unto them, Suppose ye that these Galileans were sinners above all the Galileans because they suffered such things? 3 No, I tell you, but unless you repent you will all likewise perish. 4 Or those eighteen, upon whom the tower in Siloam fell and slew them, think ye that they were more guilty than all men that dwelt in Jerusalem? 5 No, I tell you, but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.
And be baptized for the remission of sins (Acts 2: "38 And Peter said unto them, Repent, and each one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and receive the gift of the Holy Spirit; 39 For the promise is unto you and to your children, and all that are afar off, as many as the Lord our God shall call. "See what it says in Mark 16: 16 "He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved: but he that believeth not shall be damned. 17 And these signs shall follow them that believe: In my name shall they cast out devils, speak with new tongues; 18 They shall take up serpents, and if they drink any deadly thing, it does not harm themsome, and put their hands on the sick, and they shall recover. " Parents should teach their children about God and salvation in Jesus.● Knowing the Bible. To know the Lord, it is necessary to know the word he told us. Psalm 78 speaks of the importance of teaching based on biblical history. Young children like to hear the stories of Noah, Abraham, Moses, David, Daniel, etc.. They can learn many important facts about God. Approaching adolescence, develop a greater capacity to understand the teachings (doctrines) of the Bible, now with a solid foundation of historical understanding. Start early and continue to help their children grow in knowledge of the word.● Distinguish between right and wrong. The first child born in the history of the world sinned when they chose the good (Genesis 4:7). {... 1 And Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, and said, I reached one of the Lord homem.7 If thou doest well, is not certain that be accepted? And if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door, and unto thee shall be his desire, but thou shalt rule over him.}Our children will have to decide between two paths with destinations opposite Matthew 7: "13 Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction and many there be which go in thereat; 14 Because strait is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and few there be that find it. "See what it says in Hebrews 5. "13 For anyone who still lives on milk is unskillful in the word of righteousness, because it is menino.14 But solid food is for the mature, who, by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil. "This ability to distinguish between good and evil define several decisions in life: "What justifies thewicked and he who condemns the righteous are an abomination to the Lord, both it and the other is an abomination to the Lord "(Prov. 17:15).● Work and be responsible. Man was created to work, and must be responsible in all their undertakings. God has always condemned laziness (Proverbs 6:6-11; 19:15,24). Prov. 6. "6 Go to the ant, thou sluggard, consider her ways and be wise. 7 For her, having no chief, or guard, or ruler, 8 Prepares her food in summer in the harvest gathereth her food. 9 O sluggard, even when you will be lying? When you lift up from your sleep? 10 A little sleep, a little slumber, a little to stand idly by, 11 So shall thy poverty come as a thief, and thy want as an armed man. "
Paul said: "If any would not work, neither should he eat" 2 Thessalonians 3: "8 Neither we eat the bread of man, but with labor and travail, working night and day, we might not burden any of you. 9 Not because we did not have authority, but to give you in ourselves an example to imitate us. 10 For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, do not eat também.11 For we hear that some among you walk disorderly, working not before making things vãs.12 Now such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, who, working with quietness and eat their own bread. "Since financial responsibility towards the family, he said: "Now if anyone does not provideand especially of their own house, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever "(1 Timothy 5:8).● To be responsible for their actions. Since the sin of the first couple, people have tried to escape responsibility for their actions (see Genesis 3:11-13). The woman blamed the serpent that tried. The man blamed the woman and even tried to play a part of the blame on God for having created its mate! Many people now prefer to say that "happened" to avoid admitting that "I did." It is easier to blame the government or society to take responsibility for their actions. No one has ever justify sin. God justifies sinners repent!● To fulfill their duties in the family. Parents faithful to God, faithful to their spouses and children faithful to help children learn their roles in the family (Ephesians 5:22-6:4). Ef.5. "22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, being himself the savior of corpo.24 So that, so As the church submits to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their maridos.25 Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 To present himself a glorious church, without stain or wrinkle or any such thing, but holy and irrepreensível.28 So ought men to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, his flesh, and of his bones.See what it says in Ephesians 6. "1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 Honour thy father and thy mother, who is the first commandment with promise: 3 If you want may go well and live long on the earth. 4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. "Parents need to be real men that support and guide their families. Mothers need to be submissive to their husbands, showing love for them and their children. Children must be obedient, respecting and honoring parents. And parents should teach their children, helping them to grow up to be men and women faithful to God and devoted to their families.● Learn from an eternal perspective. We all need to learn to look at everything around us from an eternal perspective. People care about materialistic things passing. People look at spiritual things eternal. We and our children, we learn that "the 17th Psalm 90.1," was a prayer that Moses asked the Lord "God" see what this verse says. "9 For all our days are passed away in thy wrath: we spend our years as a tale that is told. 10 The days of our life is seventy years, and if by its robustness, even eighty years, their pride is labor and sorrow, as soon cut off and we fly away. 11 Who knoweth the power of thine anger? Second are awesome, so is thy furor.12 Teach us to number our days, so we reach hearts unto wisdom. 13 O turn unto us, Lord, how long? It repent thee concerning thy servants. 14 satisfy us early with thy mercy, that we may rejoice and be glad all our days. 15 Rejoice in the days wherein thou hast afflicted us, and the years wherein we have seen evil. 16 Show up yourwork to thy servants, and thy glory unto their children. And 17 is upon us the beauty of the Lord our God upon us and confirms the work of our hands, yea, the work of our hands. "
We must teach and live in a way that our children can learn to build up your treasures in heaven, not here on earth Matthew 6: "19 Lay not up treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal , 20 But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume and where thieves do not break through nor steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there also will your heart. "Pay close attention to what he says in Luke 12. "15 And he said unto them, Take heed and beware of covetousness: for a living does not consist in the abundance of his possessions. 16 And offered him a parable, saying, The land of a rich man brought forth plentifully: 17 And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do? I have no where to bestow my frutos.18 And said that I will pull down my barns and build greater, and there I will store all my fruits and my goods; 19 And tell my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods for many years, rest, eat, drink and folga.20 But God said to him, Fool! This night your soul will be demanded from, and what you have prepared, whose will they be? 21 So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God. "Life is like a fog, a vapor (James 4:13-15). "13 Now listen, you who say, Today or tomorrow we will go into this city, and continue there a year and contrataremos, and gain; 14 I tell you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little, and then desvanece.15 Instead, you ought to say, If the Lord wills, and if we live, do this or that.16 But now ye rejoice in your boastings: all such rejoicing is maligna.17 him therefore that knoweth to do good and not doing it is sin. "After this life and eternity comes judgment (Hebrews 9:27). "27 And, as is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment: 28 So Christ was offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time without sin, to those who hope for salvation. "
Let's teach the word of God to help our children look to prepare for eternity and eternal life in God's presence! Being parents is a great blessing and a huge responsibility that reaches into eternity. We will do our best to guide our children in the way of the Lord. Written by Dennis Allan, and researched by Jose Carlos Ribeiro, a member of GDP in Campo Grande MS. Be fathers or mothers can be an adventure difficult and fraught with problems, but one of the most rewarding and satisfying things we can do. God has much to say about how we can be successful in raising our children to be godly people. The first thing we do is teach them the truth about God's Word. In addition to love God and to be godly examples of people who are committed to His commandments, we must do what the verse says: "And you shall teach your sons and shall speak of them sit in your house, walk by the way, and lying to you and rise up. You shall bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates "(Deuteronomy 6:7-9). Following figuratively, these commandments God gave to the Hebrews, we teach our children that the worship of God should be constant, and not just reserved for Sunday morning or evening prayers.
Although learning a lot through direct teaching, our children learn much more by watching us, their parents. This explains why we should be careful in everything we do. We must first acknowledge our God-given roles. Husbands and wives should be mutually respectful and submissive to one another (Ephesians 5:21). At the same time, God established a line of authority to keep order. I Corinthians 11:3 says, "But I want you to know that Christ is the head of every man, man and the woman's head, and God the head of Christ." We know that Christ is not inferior to God, just as the woman is not inferior to her husband. God recognizes, however, that without submission to authority, no order. The responsibility of the husband as head of the house, is to love his wife as he loves his own body, the same sacrificial way that Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:2-2 to 29). PS Have you seen this passage referred to here in previous pages.In response to this loving leadership, it is difficult for the wife to submit to the authority of her husband (Ephesians 5:24, says so in Colossians 3: "18 Wives, be in subjection unto your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. 20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, provoke not your children, not to lose heart. "His primary responsibility is to love your spouse and children live with wisdom and purity, and take care of the home (Titus 2:3-5). "3 Older women likewise, that they are serious in your life, as befits the saints, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, good homemakers, subject to their husbands, so that the word of God be not blasphemed. "
Women are naturally more "capable of caring" than men because they were designed to be the primary caretakers of their offspring. Discipline and instruction are integral parts of a father and a mother. Proverbs 13:24 says: "What does not make use of the rod hates his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Children who grow up in a home without discipline feel unwanted and unworthy. They lack direction and self-control, and as they grow they rebel and have little or no respect for any authority, including God. "Discipline your son while there is hope, but do not let your soul exalt themselves to kill him" (Prov. 19:18). At the same time, the discipline must be balanced with love, or children may grow resentful, discouraged, and rebellious (Colossians 3:21). God recognizes that discipline is painful when it occurs (Hebrews 12: "5 And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not the chastening of the Lord, And nor faint when thou art rebuked by him; 6 For the Lord loveth he, and he punishes every son whom he receiveth. 7 If ye endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards and not sons. 9 In addition we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we revere; much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For those in Indeed, for some days chastened us as seemed good to them, but he for our profit, that we may share his holiness. 11 And indeed, the whole correction to this, there seems to be joyous, but of sadness, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those exercised thereby. "
But if followed by instructions in love, is admittedly beneficial to children. "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4).It is important to involve children in the family and church ministry at a young age. Regularly attend a Bible believing church (Hebrews 10:25), "22 Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water, 23 Let us hold fast the confession our hope, for he is faithful that prometeu.24 And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: 25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some, but exhorting one another , and so much more, as ye see the day approaching. 26 For if we sin willfully after we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, ... See what the version .... 29 How much severer punishment do you think he will deserve who foot the Son of God, and has regarded as unclean the blood of the covenant wherewith he was sanctified, and insulted the Spirit of grace?30 For we know him that hath said, Vengeance is mine, I will repay, saith the Lord. And again, The Lord shall judge his people. 31 is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God. "Let them see you studying the Word, and also study the Bible with them. Discuss with them the world around them as they see it, and teach them about the glory of God through everyday life. "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6).SON IS ARROW "Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children ..". Psalm 127. "3 Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord, the fruit of the womb is his reward. 4 Like arrows in the hand of a mighty man, so are the children of the youth. "The joy of the parents to see their children succeeding in life! On the other hand, there is no greater sadness to see them defeated. But how to avoid it? The Bible gives parents some excellent tips on Psalm 127.4, saying that children are like arrows in the hand of a warrior. This comparison is very rich in meaning. For example: a) Whoever has tried to shoot an arrow know it is not easy to hit the target. The same is true for our children is not easy to make them reach the goal of life.b) The logic of the arrow is to go further than the archer. This is also true for our children: we want them to go further we (parents who have not had the opportunity to study insist that their children pursue advanced college; couples who paid rent to lifelong struggle to have their children home itself, and so on). But, so that the arrow hit the target, some conditions must be met:
1. THE ARROWS HAVE TO BE IN THE HAND OF THE WARRIOR: This is one of the most impressive truths of this biblical verse: The success of our children is in our hands. Depends much more on us than them. Sometimes, some couples say they have created their children all the same, but, inexplicably, some fared better than others. Not true! First, no one can raise two children the same way, because every child is different. Second, try to create them in the same way is a mistake because, as a warrior notices the differences between an arrow and another (and take it into consideration when releasing them), we need to "break" our children and treat each of them differently, personalized. This is not discrimination (in the pejorative sense of the word), but love - that takes into account the individuality. They are in our hands and our hands should in fact be. Do not abandon them to their fate.2. IT IS NECESSARY THAT THERE IS A WELL DEFINED TARGET FRONT: It may seem silly to say this but the truth is that: a) Many families do not have any target in front. Families will "scraping by" in an endless routine, "no added salt or sugar." Parents do not talk with their children. There is no shared dreams. No family projects. No individual challenges.b) In many families the chosen targets are not appropriate. - Parents projecting their children what they themselves could not or would not do ("I could not study, but my son will be a doctor").
- Parents spending targets for the children-oriented life of materialism, selfishness, exhibitionism, etc..
It is no wonder that over time many young people lose their motivation to study, have discipline, work, etc.. What life goals that you have placed in front of their children? - What your kids will be when you grow up? What is the natural vocation of them? It is clear that tests of vocation can help us to direct them, but for the sake of truth, who else knows the children that the parents themselves? Who better to help them realize their natural gifts? Let us help our children to have a target of life. A target noble, dignified, that takes into account their strengths and weaknesses, but above all, a target that will lead them to God, therefore there is no happiness or no future without a true personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Wish them to be happy, prosperous, mature, helpful, but, above all, they are men and women of God.3. The ARCHER MUST HAVE STRONG ARM: For an arrow reaches its target it is necessary that the archer has a strong arm. This also applies to our children, so that they reach the goal of life, parents need to be strong figures, remarkable. Need to exercise authority. Set boundaries and enforce rules. From the very beginning. You may think that they will hate you for it, but do not be fooled, deep down they know the rules and limits are important because they convey them safe and teach them to lead their own lives. They are like traffic lanes on the pavement, which limit the movement of vehicles, but makes all trafeguem safely. However, our children are endowed with a logical, not just download standards and impose limits as dictators, we must explain to them why. Once you have understood, it will be easier for them to obey. But if, despite the dialogue, the children insist on being rebels, parents should enforce their punishment. It may be some punishment (like spanking some ass, for example) or can be, as they say, "let the punishment." But beware: Never spank your child or mug - physically or verbally. They will never be hurt by a righteous retribution, deserved and well spent. On the other hand, carry the soul - forever - the pain of injustice and humiliation imposed by their parents.4. The ARCHER MUST be skillful, not enough strength. You must also have skill. An arrow shot with force, but without skill can achieve anything, including Archer's own heart. Here are some desirable skills in parents:
a) Knowing the time to say "Yes" and knowing when to say "No". You have to learn to say "no" - impose limits - but you also need to know to give. We must give them room to grow, make their own decisions (even though some decisions may not be good for them). The fact is that they need to learn, including through their own mistakes. Knowing when to say "yes" is as important as being strong to say "no." Every good general knows when to attack and when to retreat. A strategic retreat is as precious as a well-planned attack.
b) Treat your child with respect: Respect him as a human being, unique, dignified. The child treated with respect learns to respect others. Respect their stages of growth, with its conflicts and needs. Even forms of motivation and correcting changes with time. For example, a 15 year old is not motivated the same way that a child of five. The same is true of punishment: a slap on the butt to 5 years can solve many things, but at 15 years this type of punishment is inappropriate.c) Be consistent. Nobody likes it when the "game rules" are changed every moment, is not it? Would you like to work with a boss like? Now imagine how it must be for children when parents change or forget the rules they themselves have created? This leaves them angry and confused! Remember that the Bible warns us about this: "Fathers, provoke not your children, lest they be discouraged" - Colossians 3.5. d) Preparing children for life: Many parents feel hurt when children begin to take its first "flights" alone. Do not be so! Like an arrow released after, one day our children will go and have to fend for themselves. Encourage them to become independent and prepare them to this day, training them in small but important tasks of day-to-day, for example, cooking, washing their own clothes, work, etc..
e) Love them unconditionally: Many children are afraid to even try for fear of failing, because they think that their parents will not love them the same way if they fail. Move this phantom of the head of their children. Show them your love, affection, care permanently. Kiss them, honor them, hug them, pamper them. Love has no contraindications. Affection does not spoil anyone. Affection does not generate disaffection. The certainty of this unconditional love will help them grow and succeed. 5. A NEED TO BE STRAIGHT ARROW: Our children also need strength of character, ethics, morals.Our children also need strength of character, ethics, morals.Lately there has been much talk in business ethics. But is not this kind of ethics that I want to talk, because business ethics is concerned merely to offer the customer a product or service quality - to increase your profits - regardless of whether or not there are ethical in their relationship with the environment environment, suppliers, competitors and employees. I speak of a deeper ethical. Intrinsic. Own being. That type of character that will never allow, for example, injure or betray the next spouse, whether being watched or not. This kind of character does not just happen. We learn from the parents and with biblical teachings. a) The influence of parents: - Through dialogue. The ongoing dialogue with their children - from early childhood - is essential to them. Get involved with your children. Meet your friends. The places they frequent. The ideologies of their "tribes". What they're reading, watching and listening. Talk to them about drugs, alcohol, pregnancy, AIDS, road rage, violence at parties, involvement in crime, friendships risk, etc.. But please, do not talk to their children only heavy themes. Converse also nonsense. Things like music, football, news of the day, the same day (if you're beautiful or not), etc.. How do you do with your friends. Have your say, listen and value their opinion. Help them to "interpret" the world.
- Through the examples of everyday life: Your children are watching you. You are your first, largest and main reference them. "What you do speaks louder than what you say" For example, a father who puts his son on the phone and sends word that he is not home, you can not ever convince him that lying is wrong. b) The teachings of the Bible: Unlike human ethics and morality - that are philosophical or purely pragmatic - the ethics and morals are divine REVEALED. The ethical and moral principles of the Bible are universal (apply to all men of all times and places) and are eternal, that is worth in the past, apply today and will continue to be worth tomorrow. For example, to kill another human being has always been wrong and will continue to be so at all times, places and cultures.Regardless of their religion, to teach their children to moral rectitude advocated in the Bible. The biblical teachings do not change - your kids will never be confused as to what is right and wrong, or as to what should or should not do. Also, open your heart and invite Jesus into your life and your home. When the Holy Spirit of God acts in the human heart, it transforms the person literally. Ethics and morality in the Bible revealed by God to embody the Christian's soul.
6. THE GRACE OF GOD FAMILY NEEDS A REALITY. Teach your children to depend on God and His grace. Even when the archer is strong and skilful, the arrow is straight ahead and the target is well defined, yet there is no guarantee that the arrow will hit the target, because along the way may appear an obstacle or a wind can deflect arrow. The same can happen to our children: obstacles can appear along the way (negative influence of friends, addictions, prostitution, etc..) Or headwinds may divert them from the target (fatalities, illnesses, poverty, unemployment, etc.)..We can not count on luck, with regard to our children, because luck may fail.We have to rely on the grace of God because GOD NEVER FAILS.
We need the grace of God. Only He can help us. Even when other conditions are not ideal at that point, he (and only he) can help us. His redeeming grace, delivers, restores, perfect. His grace is sufficient for us. When, finally, our children reach the target, say aloud: Thank God!
ARROWS ARE CHILDREN: - The arrows have to be in the hand of a warrior. There must be a clear target in front. The archer must have a strong arm. The archer must be skilled.- The arrow must be straight. The grace of God must be a familiar reality. God be praised!Author: Franco Pr. Site of Pastor (www.sitedopastor.com.br) Researcher: Jose Carlos Ribeiro, a memberPiB of Campo Grande MS. God, Creator of all things performed the first marriage thus constituting the first home through the first couple, Adam and Eve, to live side by side with respect and sanctity for breeding should be conducted by sex pleasure without sin, we should and must be performed according to biblical teachings. The descendants of the first couple should fill the earth, ie, populates it with what she would become without doubt in a beautiful garden and blessed by the eternal Father, but sin entered the world by being the first couple, upset everything as we see Today, free sex, pure filth and profanity total misery unequaled.Thinking about it we decided to write something within our limits that can guide the youth and couples often face problems and do not know how to solve them by creating further problems and leading to the destruction of many homes. Sometimes they are shy of exposing issues that are intimate venue and in fact these issues should only be treated with the right people, balanced and responsible. I am married for over half a century and only one woman, the wife of my youth whom I must be fair as it is written (Malachi 2:15) "And did not he make one, abounding you mind? And wherefore one? He sought a godly seed, so take heed to your spirit, and nobody is unfair to the wife of your youth. " It is with her that we should rejoice (Proverbs 5:18) "Blessed be your fountain, and rejoice with the wife of thy youth." (One has to understand that this loyalty will always be required by all, especially since those who are widowed and marry a second or more will have to be loyal to one another in the same way). A healthy home can be compared to a little corner of heaven, he will have strength to meet the setbacks that will certainly come. Sex is a pleasure that is part of a couple's life. All wishing to establish a home must pray a lot, asking God's guidance, it is serious matter and we can not solve it by arrogance or by our carnal instinct. Many households are made up anyway, get married by the other interests in property, marry the physical or sensual. Others only because of sex, etc.. Hardly these homes remain for a long time because in them missing two essential things: the blessing of God and mutual love. Today marriage is almost extinct, many do not last a year, others end early on and others do not want to get married, living together we will say okay to marry, forgetting or not knowing that marriage to the constitution of the household was required by glory of God to His Blessed Name. The homes built under God's protection is long lasting and only ends with the death of one of the two, except when one deviates practicing infidelity there then everything is ruined.
You need lots of love, faithfulness and obedience to the sacred teachings, they must have patience, resignation and a lot of understanding the two because life is very different from before, before we were free, after the wedding we marital obligations, we have to communicate, if we are we need to solve something and take longer than expected we communicate to others the situation so that no unnecessary worry, there are people who consider themselves absolute and do not communicate in any way bringing with it the troubles home. Alias, those communications should exist even before themarriage, because it costs nothing to the young or the young communicate to their parents or relatives when they donecessary. Children: Sooner or later reach the children and it is obvious that they come through sexual intercourse and having children increases the responsibility of both is necessary to divide the work they will have with the child care home with good witness, care and teaching, at all. There are men who do not help their wives at all, do not exchange a child, not a tidy kitchen, do not make a coffee, they want to be king and only become friendly during sex. In no way diminishes the husband his wife to help take care of home and children.Childhood: Childhood goes until about twelve years old and parents should be more aware about the education of their children so they are not compelled to dangerous deviations. In adolescence may be taken by the vices, drugs, and especially the sexual deviations, such as homosexuality, lesbianism or even rejection of sex which is not normal. Unable to create them in the street leaving the mercy of all evil. We will quote below some means that may lead the child or adolescent to undesirable deviations from normal life. Whether boy or girl, the child needs support mainly from parents and teaching appropriate based on the Holy Bible. Many parents wanted it to be born a girl and a boy instead of thanking God for the child begin to despise her and children without support and without the affection of a father and mother cling to that which pleases the most and that is dangerous and may take them for evil. Many parents only treat the children screaming and often with profanity.Teachings wrong: We will give some wrong teachings that can be taught children in infancy. A girl getting education like child may go astray astray and difficult to return to the good and right way. Should parents teach the child to take pleasure in things feminine and never teach it as a boy. Many buy toys without thinking men, treat them like the little boy want. The girl becomes more masculine interests for the area and then a strong candidate to become a lesbian or other vagaries of life. Never want to do a boy girl! In the same way the boys treated like a girl, whose parents wished that the child was a girl dealing with the child and teach him the only female tasks, buy toys female and the child becomes more comfortable being with the girls start walking up requebrando when uttering words that gesture as a woman begins to take pleasure in playing with dolls, make smoothies, washing clothes, when they become teenagers or young people are not afeiçoam the opposite sex, has no interest in dating, it is abnormal because in adolescence begin sexual impulses, so he will be one step closer to becoming a homosexual, desiring relationships only with the same sex, to the chagrin of those who know the biblical teachings, especially for parents.
The Bible is the correct method to raise children just follow him. Miss playing and FightingPlay many parents teach their children (children) to disrespect their mothers, to bore them with words such as: Boba, ugly, just like Dad. This error is committed by both father and mother, are a joke, but it is very wrong in doing so as it grows and can have unpredictable consequences, dividing up family. Fighting, many couples often address each other with words of abuse, the slights, humiliate each other with hurtful words, words, gestures and often not recommended, and especially before the children, demonstrating a lack of mutual love and consideration. It would be better a loving and respectful treatment because the child's first school is undoubtedly the home where they learn the principles of education, teaching them, it is still difficult today because television and the Internet can have negative effects on them with their training programs that often inconvenience to the teenager, although it has programs that should not exist because it does not bring any benefit to humans.Goals and guidelines for raising children. The Bible has the goals and guidelines to be followed, examine what it says in (Proverbs 22:6) "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, not depart from it." It is understood that it is for both boy or girl. Today is not easy raising children in biblical teachings as the world of globalization and through television and other communications to children and adolescents have scenes of explicit sex scenes of violence and so on. Not having the necessary structures and maturity, which was to be beneficial becomes evil taking teens to feel the desire to commit such acts initiating sexual activity in the wrong way and out of time, being exposed to sexually transmitted diseases including AIDS and many are make marginal living a life of hardship and misery. Because adolescence is dangerous to make a formation of human beings, it takes much love and care in dealing with the adolescent, however, you must also be firm in teaching with paternal authority, never be condoned acts wrong, as this will lead to evil. Even teaching and demanding there are exceptions and some even receiving the sacred teachings deviate even by terrible ways, bringing grief to the whole family. We know that these teachings through television and print media and broadcast aim to teach and warn against the danger, but still immature in mind, produce the opposite effect of making them easy prey of the total imbalance of the training still in initial stage. These teachings are being taught according to human logic, not based on biblical teachings. Let us care for the little ones. In recent times we are perplexed to see the pattern of things contrary to the desired effects, youth, adolescents and children becoming criminals who claim the lives of people a trifle, perhaps to seek out these paths by the influence of violent movies, novels have inappropriate scenes that can be induced infidelity and other types of delinquency. The desenfreamento immorality has caused many evils in society, how many fathers have been murdered by criminals smaller, practically nothing, leaving orphaned children, where parents appear human rights and even some religious leaders in defense of these young offenders, they forget the rights of those whose lives were brutally cut short, in our structure to see who has to vote for president of the republic should also be able to answer for crimes they practice. How many wives and children whose husbands and fathers were killed are at the mercy of life because they have lost that which gave them the love and support, where are the advocates of such rights of minors who practice such things and not defending the orphaned? Poor world we live in! Certainly have a lot of joy to parents who teach their children to obey the teachings of the holy Bible, because those who learn and obey the sacred teachings certainly be honest, sincere, a lot of respect and useful to society, family and nation, with rare exceptions. Here is an example of a family who used the holy teachings in the education of children, see what Paul says (2 Timothy 3:15) "And that from a child thou hast known the sacred writings which are able to make thee wise salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. " There is no more effective way to teach children what the teachings of Jesus Christ. The Bible is the school and the teacher par excellence! The home is the room where you should start teaching, church extension.The Duties of Parents. Parents should understand that home is the school based training of children. In a secular school children will receive education and culture for intellectual knowledge, but the principles of education itself must come from the base which is called home whose parents are teachers. Parents should raise their children in the fear of God. Unfortunately there are homes that are true schools of evil, where they form people angry. The children do not receive a caress, a friendly word. Sometimes when one corrects the other like little children and it is immensely damaging. Sometimes the parent leaves the child only to teach the mother or the mother leaves only contrary to the parent, but the responsibility is on both. Many parents give so much freedom to children that they live on the streets learning what should never learn, do not respect their elders in the church the parents let them run the aisles during the service, rise upon the banks and yet the parents say there's no way this child is naughty, but who have no way are the parents who do not see that she is learning not to honor the work of God. Today you see people saying that we should leave children free to live as they wish, but this teaching has no biblical approval, for the Bible tells us the following: (Proverbs 22:6) "Train up a child in the way he should go, and , when he is old, not depart from it. " It often becomes necessary rod of correction, see what Solomon says in (Proverbs 22:15) "Foolishness is bound in the heart of the boy, but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him." However, any correction should be made with love and understanding, without pleasure and without violence. To educate our children we have the Bible as the basis for it is God's Word! Never allow them to be educated through the baby monitor (television). Parental responsibility is very great, not only in education, she covers up in shopping for clothes, toys, in order to behave as the child understands everything even our gestures often irreverent and not recommended, they observe and keep all . Parents should be the best friends of children never humiliate them before other people, always requiring to be well behaved. We can not blame them at all, but we should also praise them when doing things right. We must pay attention when a child asks us something. Have parents who only know how to shout and rebuke them, never has a word of affection. Does not hold any dialogue with their children. We teach them with love, but also firmly.
Family Planning. We are favorable to family planning. Every couple should make that family planning based on their financial condition in order to raise their children by giving them guidance, education for a dignified life even if it is humble, but honored. Many couples fill the house of children believing it is a sin to avoid and then not have sufficient conditions to create them, especially when they reach adolescence where spending increases and care. So many put their children to work to assist in the maintenance of the home when they should be studying for a decent future. Others leave them at the mercy of the streets where they can follow paths tremendously dangerous. Others think that family planning is a sin and quote the Bible where it says: "Unite and multiply and replenish the earth." The earth is full, God has ordained only fill the earth, not hype. Global organizations no longer know what to do with overpopulation on earth. If household income is small and may have many children? Plan a family within their means, one or more children. Examine the financial part of the home you can afford to support their children until they have the necessary preparation for life which is not easy, many parents think that the biggest expenses while the children are little, but if you cheat too much about it, because in school is that the costs increase greatly. Others claim that the Bible says children are blessings and fill the house of sons and brothers who know pastors so they thought, and filled the house of children and today a large portion of them are diverted from God's ways, some have gone down by drugs, becoming marginal in whose end may be death or jail. Parents have forgotten that Jesus said to be prudent and reckless and did not plan their families. We must examine the Bible texts and contexts. The Roman Catholic Church is against family planning, but we have nothing with this, we will be always with the Bible. How can the leaders of the Catholic Church teaching against family planning if they have never married and they are even banned from a family, contrary to the biblical order as it is written in (1 Timothy 3:2 and 5) "It is, therefore, that the bishop be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, honest, hospitable, able to teach, (...) (because if someone does not know how to rule his own house, take care of the church of God "). Only the woman who is wise is that it is able to educate their children the way God teaches in His Word. Only the wisdom given by God to us is that mothers are able to rid our children's influence in the world. When I put God first in my life when I ask him the wisdom that I have to become a father and mother-fearing and obedient to His commandments, I realize that He is transforming my heart and opened my understanding to educate my children in His ways. Proverbs 22:6 tells us: "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it." The book of Proverbs gives sage advice to be followed by us mothers. I read the Bible from Genesis to Revelation, but if I am right now, worried her with the education of my children then I read the other books of Proverbs and in parallel. I read Proverbs underlining the verses relating to the child's education, to speak in mother, parents, children, creation ...II-PRINCIPLES TO BE FOLLOWED BY A MOTHER: 1 - As a mother, I must teach my children, 2 - As a mother, I must educate my children, 3 - As a mother, I guide my children to be wise,
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Olá meus nobres leitores (as ) muito obrigado pela confiança e pelos mais de 44 mil acessos. Isto me torna com mais responsabilidades, e me obriga a fazer pesquisa cada vez mais seria, pois não posso baixar a qualidade, o nível da pesquisa. Estou muito feliz com todos vocês, e quero dizer que, meus temas são longos, para que todos venham ter um melhor aprendizado, e melhorem seus conhecimentos, pois nas igreja não terão tantas informações assim. se quiseram que eu desenvolva algum tema relacionado com a palavra de Deus, mandem algum recado que tentarei desenvolver. Fiquem com Deus todos vocês
em nome de Jesus.